merry is hurt BAD

[Kfamr]

Maybe I shouldn't be posting this, but i'm curious as to how you have $150 to go to a meeting, yet no money to care for your pet which is more than likely in pain and in need?

[carole]

Kay Unfortunately people have different prioritys when it comes to money, and as Jynelle as no control over this, she really has no say on how the money is spent.

I am not going to make any further comments except I hope Merry gets the treatment that is required and SOON, and none of us are perfect or should be judging others too harshly, you never know when the tables can turn and you could be faced in a situation you are not happy with.

PS Jynelle can you tell us why you choose not to say how merry was hurt, was it an avoidable accident, you know accidents do happen, so don't feel too bad if that were the case, we are here to help not judge you ok.

[tikeyas_mom]

Originally posted by Kfamr
Maybe I shouldn't be posting this, but i'm curious as to how you have $150 to go to a meeting, yet no money to care for your pet which is more than likely in pain and in need?

I dotn have that much money any more, our gas got cut off and my mom needed it to pay the company. nosy.....

I hope I am wrong, but am only reading between the lines here and not intentionally stirring things up ok.

you are wrong.

[Kfamr]

Originally posted by tikeyas_mom
I dotn have that much money any more, our gas got cut off and my mom needed it to pay the company. nosy.....

Ok, okay.

You're not one to call someone nosey. I care that Merry gets the help he actually needs. Please don't be rude to me unless you want it right back.

[tikeyas_mom]

ummm.. ok??? Your the one who took info from my live journal and posted it here.. which it wasnt needed. now thats being nosey... and that post that stated i has 150 to goto Van was from like a week ago..

[Kfamr]

Originally posted by tikeyas_mom
ummm.. ok??? Your the one who took info from my live journal and posted it here.. which it wasnt needed. now thats being nosey... and that post that stated i has 150 to goto Van was from like a week ago..

I was actually told about that, and checked to make sure it was factual. It was posted 3 days ago.


I guess I just don't quite understand your train of thought when it comes to your animals, and maybe I never will. I guess we can just leave it at that, as well?

[carole]

I am glad to be proved wrong Jynelle, I actually changed my post, as I thought it sounded like I was judging you, something I said we should not do, hoping to hear Merry has had treatment now, any good news to report?

[lv4dogs]

edited cause It was partially rude & childish but im just saying now that these types of posts suck & im outta this one

[wolfsoul]

Maybe I shouldn't be posting this, but i'm curious as to how you have $150 to go to a meeting, yet no money to care for your pet which is more than likely in pain and in need?

I've been to her house, she has no hot water.

Which reminds me; Jynnelle, my mom gave me an extra five bucks so we can split my money when we leave. It'll only be 15 bucks because my mom is giving your dad ten bucks for gas, but it's not that bad. That's almost eight bucks each. We can still afford some snacks. And I'm bringing snacks along anyways. Do you want me to bring some soup?

PS Jynelle can you tell us why you choose not to say how merry was hurt, was it an avoidable accident, you know accidents do happen, so don't feel too bad if that were the case, we are here to help not judge you ok.

It was avoidable, but it was an unfortunate accident. It was Jynnelle's mom's fault, and she's really sorry, and I don't want to anyone to blame her for anything because it was an accident, so we're not going to say anything else. Somehow somebody will find a way to how it all traces back to Jynnelle anyways.

[carole]

That was what I was trying to say, accidents do happen, even avoidable ones, no-one intentionally hurts their pet, I have had such an accident myself, and I have never really forgiven myself, but it was not meant, and everything turned out ok in the end, but still no-one least of all myself would want any harm to come to our beloved pets.

I certainly am not judging Jynelle or her mother, just hoping little merry can be treated and get better soon. Life is hard some times, and we are all dealt things that we don't like from time to time, we can only do the best we can do.

[wolfsoul]

lv4dogs, I believe it is particularly nosey (though my opinion is irrelevant), because these were not journal entries that everyone on the internet could read. These entries were LOCKED so that only people on Jynnelle's friend list could view them. Therefore, to view them and not be on her friends list, you either have to have a certain code, be a skilled hacker, or something else that is undoubtedly illegal. But, as I said, my opinion is irrelevant. This isn't about me or anyone else here, just Merry. It's unfortunate that we as flawed people have to see other sides to these situations and take blame to whatever we see that has no control in convincing us otherwise.

[wolfsoul]

Originally posted by carole
That was what I was trying to say, accidents do happen, even avoidable ones, no-one intentionally hurts their pet, I have had such an accident myself, and I have never really forgiven myself, but it was not meant, and everything turned out ok in the end, but still no-one least of all myself would want any harm to come to our beloved pets.

I'm glad that you can admit that accidents can happen to you and everyone. I certainly have had my fair share of accidents, even avoidable ones. Life is hard sometimes! I'm glad that some are capable of working through it though. It's good that we all love our pets and try to help them, especially when we can blame ourselves for an accident. I know how bad it felt when Frisco got worms and I didn't have enough money to take him to the vet. I blamed myself so much. Jynnelle saved me though -- she lent me some ivermectin, and he got better!

[Kfamr]

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Originally posted by wolfsoul
lv4dogs, I believe it is particularly nosey (though my opinion is irrelevant), because these were not journal entries that everyone on the internet could read. These entries were LOCKED so that only people on Jynnelle's friend list could view them. Therefore, to view them and not be on her friends list, you either have to have a certain code, be a skilled hacker, or something else that is undoubtedly illegal. But, as I said, my opinion is irrelevant. This isn't about me or anyone else here, just Merry. It's unfortunate that we as flawed people have to see other sides to these situations and take blame to whatever we see that has no control in convincing us otherwise.

If you're talking about me knowing aobut the $150 thing -- it was a public entry. (And I'm not saying that you implied that or anything, just saying so everyone else doesn't think i'm a hacekr or something. )

[carole]

I think we all should just respect her decision not to elaborate on what happened, whether we know or not does not change anything, it happened unfortunately, accidents do from time to time, let us just hope Merry will be fine, thats what really matters here, and I am sure a lesson has been learn't anyhow, bet it won't happen again.

[micki76]

What happened was NOT Jynelle's fault and it's entirely her business whether she tells anyone or not.

I dont' balme her for not telling. Like she said earlier, someone will find a way to make it her fault.