Val, I am so sorry to hear your news.
Val, I am so sorry to hear your news.
I am once again asking for prayers. Although I don't know if I believe in those any more and this is coming from someone who attends church twice a week.
I just found out this morning that things are taking a nasty turn. Alden has filed for divorce, taken money out of the bank (which was supposed to be mine) and even filed for a restraining order against me. I don't understand the restraining order. I've only seen him once this past month and talked to him twice. Once to see if he could fix my washer and then this morning when he told me what he was doing. He was extremely cold and said I was no longer his concern. I don't know how things got so bad. This is all coming from the same guy who said he would pay the house payment, the car payment, dog food and vet bills and even my medical bills. I was bawling like crazy this morning but still managed to make it to work. I am numb now and scared. There is a huge part of me that wants to get this week's paycheck and take what little money I have in the bank and just disappear. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm insane. I have to end all of this.
I know I will regret posting here.
robin, i am and will be praying for you. i am so sorry that it's gotten angry and ugly with alden. don't dissappear, tori and katie need you. do take the money from the bank and open another account that alden cannot access. do you have a lawyer yet? i will be thinking of you, kindest regards, joyce
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(((hugs))) Robin, even though you feel insane, it's his behavior that sounds insane. Chances are there is more going on with him than meets the eye. Starting a separate bank account and getting a lawyer immediately are good suggestions. You need to look out for Tori, Katy, & yourself. I'm so sorry it's t urning nasty. You're still in my prayers.
(((hugs))) Robin, even though you feel insane, it's his behavior that sounds insane. Chances are there is more going on with him than meets the eye. Starting a separate bank account and getting a lawyer immediately are good suggestions. You need to look out for Tori, Katy, & yourself. I'm so sorry it's turning nasty. You're still in my prayers.
Val, I am very sorry for your loss. This must be very hard for you.
Robilee - get a lawyer AT ONCE. I am sure there are one or two in your congregation, or your pastor can recommend one.
Do that now. And write down everything Alden has done - bank account #, what the withdrawl was, everything. Keep a record - this will be useful because you will be upset for a while and it will be hard to keep everything clear.
I know it is HARD to do practical things - but you have to protect yourself and the kids.
HUGS!
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I'm so sorry this has taken such a nasty turn, Robin.
We haven't spoken in a few weeks but please, if you need me, I am here. If you want, PM me and I'll give you my cell number.
{{HUGS}}
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Robin-please don't regret posting this here- we are your family and we love you and will help out anyway we can.
Val -
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Robin, don't feel bad for posting, people care and want to help, even if it's just to give you support to know you aren't alone. I'm so sorry this has taken such a bad turn. PM if there is anything I can do.
Val, I am sorry for your loss. I know that must break your heart. =(
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{{{{Robin}}}}
I am so sorry this is getting so nasty. I will continue to pray for you. ((hugs))
Oh Robin, I would just like to ditto everything that Pat has said and add some more {{{HUGS}}}.
Val, youtoo will be in my prayers, I know it must be very hard right now.
Originally Posted by Kfamr
Wanted to update everyone, not to take away from anyone else's prayers - Grandpa is home now. So far, so good I believe. He got home last evening and we haven't got any calls from them yet - so I suppose no news is good news?
It still may be a while until he up and about his normal self, so please still keep him in your thoughts if you've got room for him.
~Kay, Athena, Ace, Kiara, Mufasa, & Alice!
"So baby take a axe to your makeup kit
Set ablaze the billboards and their advertisements
Love with all your hearts and never forget
How good it feels to be alive
And strive for your desire"
-rx bandits
Never to full to add another prayer.
Thanks Jess for the great sig of my kids!
I love you baby, passed away 03/04/2008
Update: My manager had her hip replacement last week Tuesday and she has way less pain! Yay! She was checking her e-mails from home today and sent a quick "hello" to us.
Prayers of thanks that kfamr's granddad is home and doing better. Prayers for Robilee's difficult situation.
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