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    I must give up my cats.

    Because of both health and finances, I must move to a home where pets are not allowed. Beau will live with a lady, her family and cats. He will still be mine and I can see him once in a while. Felicia, on the other hand, has never been handled by anyone but me (except the vet) and has never gotten along with other cats. She will never fit in another home and will be put to sleep.
    Nancy



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    I am so sorry to hear about your sad news. It must be heart-breaking to have to part with your beloved pets.

    Hugs to you and your babies. (((hugs)))
    Loving meowmie to Archy & Binky (RIP my sweet boy 10/13/10)

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    That's so sad. Can't you find a sanctuary for Felicia to go to? A home where she can live and be taken care of but never adopted?

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    I'm so sorry about this Nancy. I will not judge, as only you know what's best for your cats.

    {{{hugs}}}
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    Gee whiz, having to give up your babies must be breaking your heart. I hope you find a home for Felicia. GOOD LUCK!

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    So Sorry.I know how you feel.I had to give two of my babies away.Emmy my cockatiel and Pumpkin my cat.Emmy went to Kari and Pumpkin is going to live with Donna in a while.
    Nikki[human],Zippy[tabby],and Pumpkin[orange tabby]
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    I'm so very sorry. I'm sure this is extremely hard for you. (((HUGS)))

    I'm praying that a rescue can help you with Felicia and it's good to know you have a good home lined up for Beau.

    From Decker with Love

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    Oh my gosh. Nancy, I am SO sorry to hear you have been put in such a difficult position. I will hope and pray that everything works out and you are able to either bring Felicia with you, or at the very least find an alternate home for her. I just can't imagine the heartbreak you must have gone through to come to this decision.
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    Nancy, here are some resources that may help you to keep Felicia with you. Hope they help!

    Best Friends for Life, Humane Housing for Animals and People.
    This booklet is available through the website of Doris Day Animal League, http://www.ddal.org/pubs/bestfriends/
    or by calling (202)546-1761, by e-mailing [email protected], and thru Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals by calling (617)522-7400 or faxing (617) 522-4885. -- The first book is free, additional copies are $2.95
    It covers topics such as:

    • How disabled individuals may be eligible to keep pets even in "no-pets" housing
    • A new federal law that allows pets in federally assisted housing
    • Arguments that may allow animals in "no pet" privately owned housing
    • Responsible pet guardianship
    • How to convince your landlord to adopt a "pets welcome" policy
    • Model rental guidelines that protect the rights of renters and animals

    The MSPCA produces a booklet called Pets in People Places, Responsible Pet
    Ownership in Multi-Unit Housing. phone: 617-522-7400

    http://www.firepaw.org/CarpLiterature.html
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    I'm sorry to hear that you will not be able to keep both of your cats with you.
    I'm glad that Beau will have a new home and that you will be able to visit him.
    I hope that you will be able to keep Felicia with you or find a good person to take care of her for you.
    Sending hugs your way, I know this can't be easy for you.
    Just remember that you are a part of the Pet Talk family and that we care about you and your cats here.
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    I'm so very sorry for all your troubles.Your pets are your children and I'm happy you can visit one of them.The other will be at RB watching over you and protecting you.And very happy with your desicion.At rest now and thinking of you.You made the right desicion.Believe me...I've been there and know you did right.

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    Nancy, Are you OK? Have you had any luck?
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    Oh Nancy, I'm so sorry. I missed this thread when it first appeared since I'm hit or miss on the forums these days. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. If you need anything, please PM me and I'll do my best to find any resources or info you may need.

    Thanks Jen for bumping this thread back up. Please check in if you can find a moment to let us know how you're making out.
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