I hate my MIL!!!!

[Samantha Puppy]

No matter how I try to word this, it comes out wrong. I will just say this, "remember, this is your husband's mother, and more your child's grandmother". Unless there is some safety issue, there isn't any reason why two mature adults can't get along.

I know that, and we usually do get along. I do not, however, appreciate being lied to and my friends manipulated so that she can have her way. I have given in to her plenty - thinking exactly what you said above - but I'm sorry, this time in my life is about ME and JOSH and our new family unit. I had to stand up for myself in this case.

[Husky_mom]

i also have this kind of issue we do get along, but somethimes she gets to my nerves, because she wants to be in charge of everything and say when, what, and how to do things, and her opinion is the only one that´s right and counts. i really get pissed when this happens because as Samantha said it is now about ME my HUSBAND and OUR family, i do value their opinions but it´s our bussiness and no one elses. so we should do what is best for USnot for THEM.