I just cannot believe this.

[Dogz]

Thanks, I think that this will help Jess. I know that it would comfort me to know that somebody cares.

[slleipnir]

I wasn't fighting or ment anything of the sort if I was being implied there..Anyway, I talked to Jess and to clear up for anyone else who may have been confused, her mom took him somewhere else and put him to sleep. Jess got him today and buried him

[Kfamr]

I was intending on fighting either, we were just confused and well, yeah...... enough.

[Twisterdog]

Originally posted by micki76
Hmm.. It all made sense to me.

Girls, please stop bickering like children. Someone’s pet has passed to the RB. Why must you fight about this here, in this thread? Please contain your arguments to yourselves. Use Pm’s for pete’s sake. Have a little consideration for Jess and for Max.

Once again Jess, I’m terribly sorry for your loss and I’m even more sorry that your mother would do this to you. You have my deepest sympathies.

AMEN! For Pete's sake, Kfamr and tikeyas_mom ... act your ages, please, and try to understand that this thread is about loss, betrayal and death ... it's not about you. This constant arguing and simply HAVING to have the last word in ANY thread is getting SO old. Enough already.


I'm so sorry, kingrattus. Max is at peace now. Godspeed.

[Kfamr]

I even said it wasn't about me, or what I know. Gosh.

[kingrattus]

Rob & I left in the car & James & Tonya left in her van to go to Almont to get supplies, it was about 3:30pm.

We arrived at James's dads house at 4pm. His dad gave us a fireman's axe (its long handled & has a spike at the back of the blade), to help us cut through the snow & frozen ground.

We (all 4 of us in rob's car) picked up Max in Perth at about 6pm. We got to James's dads girlfriends house at about 6:30pm, it was dark out & was a beautieful clear stary night, Rob & James saw a shooting star as they were unpacking & I was picking the tree I wanted Max to be burried beside.

I walked up to the tree found an angle of the tree I liked & pushed some snow away to mark it. Rob & James spent about an hour & a half digging until it was perfect & I aproved of it lumpy free.

James & Tonya left Rob & I alone with my fuzzy bed blanket (I hadn't seen Max yet, Rob refused to let me see him at the vets). Rob took the blanket off of Max so we could line the hole (I didn't want Max getting dirty, he deserved that). I got upset because Max was in a black bag & begged rob to cut him out right away, I didn't want my baby in a bag.

It was the first time & last time I saw him & I'll never forget it.
(Rob & I were crying the whole time) I petted Max, told him I was sooo sorry this happened to him, called him a good boy & rob & I kept petting him saying how he was such a good boy & didn't deserve to die so early. I gave Max one of his fav toys he died with & I took the other. I burried him 1/2 way until I started to get too tired because I've had the flu & a bad feaver all weekend & today, rob & James finished burying Max for me while I carved :

MAX
'93-'03
*carved a big heart*
J.
A.
K.

into Max's tree trunk. j.a.k. stands for Jessica Anne marie King. I was so stressed out & ill I wanted to put JESS, but I put the E backwards & got mad, then James asked me all kinds of diff questions on what I could make it into & one was middle name, so I made it into a funny looking A.

James's dad's girlfriend was honered to have Max burried in her field & she thought it was great to carve into the tree.

I feel a bit more at ease now that I got to say good bye, but I still can't beleave its happened, I just want my baby back, I saw him last sunday & drove about 200km to take him to see Santa at petsmart & he was super healthy, happy, running around like a crazed animal (too happy). Max wasn't in any pain, he just couldn't digest dog food, he was eating his hamburger, rice & carrots just fine, & now hes gone.

I'm never going to moms house ever again, nor speaking to her no seeing her. I want nothing to do with her. She knew I wanted to be there then it was time & if saturday was really his time, then she should have called me & I would have left work right away & headed out to perth. I would have bought Max McDonalds as a last meal because he was never able to enjoy the taste of a burger.

[trayi52]

That is so heartbreaking, just the saddest thing to have to do, is bury a beloved pet. Please know that my heart is with you. I wish it had never happened but the horrible part is, it did.

Just know that I really feel for you. You have been through a lot these past days, I hope things will be better soon, and hope your broken heart will heal soon.

So sorry.

[IttyBittyKitty]

I'm almost in tears reading about what happened to poor Max. Godspeed to the Bridge, little one. Be assured that you did everything you could for your little one, Jess, and that you gave Max all the love that anyone could give.

[shais_mom]

Oh Jess, that is so sad. My heart is breaking for you.
You were a good Momma to Max and he knew how much you loved him.



Kay and Audrey,
Thank you for apologizing. In my heart I know didn't mean to hurt Jess over this.
I agree that it is over and done with and moving on for Jess' sake.

[cloverfdx]

Oh Jess i am so sorry i realy was praying that everything would work out for Max and yourself.

Godspeed Max and have fun at RB, oh so sad

once again i am sorry it had to end this way you are in my thoughts.

[slleipnir]

Kay and Audrey,
Thank you for apologizing. In my heart I know didn't mean to hurt Jess over this.
I agree that it is over and done with and moving on for Jess' sake. [/B]

Hmm...I didnt really apologize..I dont believe I did anything to apologize for..I just said I didnt fight..Cause I didnt, Im a friend of Jess, all I said was I was confused.......

[Soledad]

So sad and so unfair.

[primabella]

It's all so terrible. I'm sooo sorry Jess. RIP Sweet Max.

[tikeyas_mom]

i am sorry for seeming to start a fight! I was just trying to clear things up ..
I think we will all miss max very VERY much, he was a sweet dog

[lynnestankard]

Jess this is just too sad - my heart goes out to you. RIP dear Max.

Another new star in heaven. xxx

Lynne