I need advice!

[Kfamr]

You not knowing what to do, seems like you've had second thoughts aobut it. If you weren't thinking aobut it, you'd know your answer right away, you wouldnt have to ask other's for advice.

[sweet_stormy]

im sry. i just wanted to know other people's opinions. is that so much to ask for? i just wanted to know what you all thought. im sry. how many times do i have to say that?

[GoldenRetrLuver]

I said you SHOULDN'T be having second thoughts about doing it with him. Like Kfamr said.

[GoldenRetrLuver]

Originally posted by sweet_stormy
im sry. i just wanted to know other people's opinions. is that so much to ask for? i just wanted to know what you all thought. im sry. how many times do i have to say that?

So you got our opinions. I don't think anyone on this board would think it was right to do anyway...

[sweet_stormy]

the most i have ever thought about him was in my nightmares, when i would see him raping me. i dont even know what they mean.

[Kfamr]

And that's what we're giving you.

Sweetheart, You really shouldn't be talking to US about this though. We won't be there whe this "BOB" guy shows up at your door, if he even does. You parents will though. Speak to them, talk to them, Make them aware of you situation. It's not safe at all.

[GoldenRetrLuver]

Raping you in your dreams? PLEASE take our advice and just say NO to him. There's no good that could come out of it anyway.

[popcornbird]

Originally posted by sweet_stormy
the most i have ever thought about him was in my nightmares, when i would see him raping me. i dont even know what they mean.

If he's raping you in your dreams, maybe that's a sign from God to BEWARE of him and STAY AWAY and protect yourself! Many times dreams are signs and turn out to be true. Maybe you're being told to stay away. Follow your self instincts, and steer away from the situation. When he's supposed to arrive, tell your parents to take you out, maybe to a friend's house, or the mall. Go WITH your parents. Do NOT stay home alone. At night, make sure to have all your doors and windows locked, and stay alert, and have your parents alert. You said your parents don't know you were meeting him. I think more than us, THEY should know. Its important, and there's a HUGE possibility that this guy can hurt you. Don't fall into his tricks. This only shows you're innocence dear. When someone's approaching you like this, that means *RUN*. You don't stand up and support a person who wants to molest you. You're parents should know, because they care about you and will want to protect you. Stay safe kid! And NO, you're not a bad person! You are young and innocent, and this guy is not so innocent and wants to do wrong and immoral things to you. Steer away and take our advice. DON'T go near him!

[2kitties]

Originally posted by sweet_stormy
the most i have ever thought about him was in my nightmares, when i would see him raping me. i dont even know what they mean.

Okay, now my red flags are going off. Sorry, but this is getting a little overdramatic. You knew the answer to this situation before you posted it. If this man truly said something to you with sexual reference, then talk to a counselor or your parents because he is suggesting a crime against children in the eyes of the law. It is not normal behavior for a grown man, no matter how mature you may be. It sort of interests me that in recent posts you have so quickly jumped to his defense, then you say you imagine him raping you????? This story is beginning to reak of imagination.

[sweet_stormy]

why the F*** would i be making this up? you think i like being scared? you think i like thinking that i may never be able to come home and relax? no, every time he is in my town i am always looking down roads and in store parking lots just to make sure he ISNT around. i dont like not feeling safe in my own home. i wish i could be like most of my friends who dont have to worry about this type of stuff. but im not my friends. i never will be. i will always be looking every direction. i will never be normal again. i dont like this one bit.
you said that u dont think that i should be standing up for "BOB" b/c u said that he is a man that my want to malest me. that is just how i am. i stick up for others. even if its not right.
i wish that i could just go walking around without worrieing that i will get hurt. i even look around the school grounds and even in the school while im going to my classes. i just dont think you guys know what im going through. i dont have a father, so i dont have a fatherly figure to help protect me. its just me, my mother, and my 16 year old brother. yeah, my brother may help protect me, but whats he going to do to stop a "Foot Ball player" from hurting me. he cant do much. you may think that i am wrong. but i dont think so. u dont know "BOB" you dont know my brother and u basically dont know me that well. im sry if you think that what i am doing is wrong. but at least i know when enough is enough. i read these posts everyday. i dont respond right away b/c i dont want people to think that i have nothing better to do. my friends and i joke around a lot about "BOB" and what i would do if i saw him. but that is just talk, no action.

[Soledad]

Sweet Stormy, the easiest way to solve this is to tell your mother and to call the police. Please, don't hesitate.

[2kitties]

Originally posted by sweet_stormy
no, every time he is in my town i am always looking down roads and in store parking lots just to make sure he ISNT around. i dont like not feeling safe in my own home. you said that u dont think that i should be standing up for "BOB" b/c u said that he is a man that my want to malest me. that is just how i am. i stick up for others. even if its not right.

If he scares you that much, no, you wouldn't stick up for him. You're either scared of him and you do something about it, or you stick up for him and call him your friend. You've done both in this thread. Sorry, but there are holes here.

[gini]

Sweet Stormy, you have been talking about this now since September 30th.

You have received excellent advice. You have heard directly from our mayor, Karen.

You are right. We do not know you, we don't know this "Bob",
we don't know your brother nor your parents.

However, Soledad is absolutely correct. Tell your parents and get this over with. Or call the police and advise them.

I don't think there is one more thing that we could add here that can make a difference for you - except prolong this thread.

We know you are young, we know you are scared, but you have options which I mentioned above.

Continuing to discuss this makes us wonder - WHY?

[Kfamr]

Who knows if you're making it up or not. It's happened before.
TELL YOUR PARENTS. CALL THE COPS. If this is true, you NEED to.

[Pam]

I'm lost. This thread has taken a turn and I'm not sure I understand. If you are afraid of Bob I think you already had your answer. Why the need for the advice?