I've Had Enough.

[Karen]

Karen, you have the patience of a saint!

Had to respond to that part, and give the standard family answer ...

Saint Bernard, maybe ...

I have tried many people's patience in my life, maybe my beloved Grandma most of all, though I am sure I did a job on my siblings as well ... so I try to be patient to make up for it!

[sandragonfly]

quoted by shais mom
Ok seriously - I usually stay away from threads like this. But with the discord at PT all I can say to Gina - is ENOUGH! If what you have been thru in your life is truly - TRUE- you have my utmost sympathy and my apologies that Life has dealt you this hand but honestly Karen is one of the MANY people that stood beside you and STOOD UP FOR YOU (found you a place to live) when life had you hanging by the toenails.
Every time anyone doubted you Karen was quick to come to your defense. I am APPALLED regardless of what has happened b/n the 2 of you that you think it is OK to come her and try to humiliate Karen at HER OWN site! How can you honestly think that is ok?

humiliated?? staci, please don't bother or make me print screen all the words off website where you posted such so much in hatred about us, few pet talkers. look, I absolutely have no idea what I've done or said to you or why you're so annoyed by me and yell at me like this?? and karen did not found me a place, by the way - it's not the point of this anyway. this is about what somebody have done, not the mayor.

thank you caseysmom, I appreciate it.

karen, as said, I felt can't ask for your help when you last couldn't - how can I expect you will help me and thump the bugger this time. I don't believe someone had to PM me, or anyone to anyone most cruel thing where I/we never said such a thing but "she was just a long-time member," and "just ingore her."

few posts above, this is the major reason why I should leave, I don't know what I've done or did. I honestly wanted to let my friends know I'm leaving then I get this now, again and when something happens to me and I'm asking for prayers, I had have been including nasty, sad and upsetting pictures (proof) so nobody would accuse of or judge me just like you people.

I never ever wanted or thought it would come up to this .. this site isn't as sweet as you think it is.

[dukedogsmom]

Not to get in the middle but Karen you have been one of the kindest people I have ever "met".

Gina I also enjoy you, I hate it when there is friction between two people I like.

I agree and I want to also agree about Karen going out of her way to keep us updated on Gina.

[jackie]

Ok, if you are going, why are you still here?

All you are doing is bring more negativity and hatred to the site.

Stop being such a drama queen, and move on with your life.

[Cataholic]

Gina,
I will NOT share publically with the board what we have pm'd each other yesterday, hours worth of pms. But, I will remind you publically, I, like Karen has done, asked you multiple times, multiple ways to disclose this person that has been sooooo (apparently) hateful to you, and you refused. You go on and on and on about this person, but, refuse to tell anyone. Know what? That sounds pretty darn suspicious to me.

You have an way of taking things people post in such an unusual manner. You see insult where none is intended. That is a problem, as you are then walking around wounded all the time.

If you want to go- go. But, to continue to post bile about Karen- the "owner" of this board is truly, truly amazing. It is like you have come into HER house to trash her. Completely unacceptable behavior.

If you had come into MY house, and said what you had said about Karen, I would have either slapped you, or literally thrown you out of my house, probalby both. You have big ones.

[shais_mom]

quoted by shais mom
Ok seriously - I usually stay away from threads like this. But with the discord at PT all I can say to Gina - is ENOUGH! If what you have been thru in your life is truly - TRUE- you have my utmost sympathy and my apologies that Life has dealt you this hand but honestly Karen is one of the MANY people that stood beside you and STOOD UP FOR YOU (found you a place to live) when life had you hanging by the toenails.
Every time anyone doubted you Karen was quick to come to your defense. I am APPALLED regardless of what has happened b/n the 2 of you that you think it is OK to come her and try to humiliate Karen at HER OWN site! How can you honestly think that is ok?

humiliated?? staci, please don't bother or make me print screen all the words off website where you posted such so much in hatred about us, few pet talkers. look, I absolutely have no idea what I've done or said to you or why you're so annoyed by me and yell at me like this?? and karen did not found me a place, by the way - it's not the point of this anyway. this is about what somebody have done, not the mayor.

I have posted hatred on this site about you??? WHAT? Are you serious? And I really don't think I have said much about YOU publicly here. So now I'm the root of your evil problems? You have some nerve.
there may be a few members that I have a problem with but 1) I am NOT the person you are referring to b/c I don't think I have ever pm'ed you. JUST TO CLARIFY since now she is making ME out to be a bad guy. 2) I have every right to post my opinion (as does everyone else) about this thread. If you can't take the heat get out of the virtual kitchen.
You have a lot of nerve to come here - start this mess and then try to blame Karen for your problems and then when that isn't working to try to blame me.
I would truly feel sorry for you b/c you apparently can't be happy without starting "something" but I'm sure you don't want my pity so whatever.
If I am so full of hatred why did I start this thread? And it also refers to THIS thread.
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=120461

[Pam]

I have no idea what has been going on as I haven't followed any of this. I can say from reading through this thread that I am amazed that it hasn't been deleted or at least locked by Karen. To trash a moderator on their own site defies belief.

[Alysser]

All you are doing is bring more negativity and hatred to the site.

I am in complete agreement with this statment. This thread started out nicely but has turned into a fight. I am appalled, Gina, that you could actually blame Karen for your problems. I do admit, they were horrible problems and I felt very bad for you. You dealt with alot of crap in the last year. Karen was one of the many pettalkers who prayed, comforted, and most importantly supported you. She made the boards, giving us all updates on you. This is her website, even though this is a public forum, that fact gives you NO RIGHT to blame her for anything.

Yes, it is sad people are attacking you on here. I haven't seen them do it, but if you refuse to tell Karen who the person is she can't help you.

BTW, in all the months I've been on Pettalk, I have never seen Shias_mom attack you, or anyone else for that matter.

[catnapper]

Oh boy has this thread taken a turn.

I think its awfully suspicious that you refuse to reveal the bad guy in all this... and you are making Karen out to be the bad guy because she's not protecting you from this person. Does she have a magic wand that reveals everything? Reveal the bad guy and she can help you. You've mentioned bad guys for months. I have never seen evidence of anybody saying or doing anything mean to you. I've only seen a lot of people offer support, and now because you've listed Karen as a bad guy, you've lost a lot of support.

[PJ's Mom]

wow. i've been a memeber of this board for a long time and this is probably the first time i've seen karen dragged into something like this.

gina, i have nothing against you, but you got the attention you wanted. please move on before the tension in here gets worse.

[trayi52]

Oh, please, I wish this fighting would just stop! It is getting ridiculous. Gina, just tell Karen who the bad guy really is, and get it over with. She will be able to help you then.

I will hate to see you go. I do respect your wishes though, and wish you a very happy life.

Willie

[cloverfdx]

Serious Gina if you are going go. If not 'out' the supposed 'bad guy' and get on with life.

[Daisy and Delilah]

I, like everyone else, have to give my opinion at this point.
Frankly, Gina, what did you expect you would get? I'm amazed that you're attacking Karen the way you are and you expect the members here to go along with you.
I have been a supporter of yours in the past but you've gone way over the top this time. I asked you to PM me and you didn't. Do you realize that no one knows who you're talking about being so mean to you but you're blaming people here anyway? How do you expect to get positive backers when you refuse to tell anyone what the problem is????? You don't criticize the moderator of the board and expect the board to support you. Either come clean with the problem to somebody or drop it!!

Everyone on this board has problems. Some that are bigger than you realize. Stop and think for a minute about what you're doing and how you're upsetting people. I'm sorry to say that you are alienating yourself from most everybody and none of us seem to know why.

In Karen's defense. I've never known Karen to do anything except in the very best interest of everybody on this board. Please drop all accusations against her and try to handle it yourself if you think you can do it better. I'm tired of listening to this. Put your money where your mouth is and stop all this nonsense!! You have really disappointed me, to say the least. I hope you get yourself straightened out soon and your beloved pets are safe.

Sorry for my rambling everyone--In response to this, I can't seem to calm down and think straight.

[Zippy]

Gina..Who is bothering you???Tell Karen and she can help you.Karen is a great person and always keep us PTers updated on you and your pets.
If you want to leave I wish all the best and your pets too.I hope this thread is closed soon.

[shais_mom]

I'm not entirely sure that closing or deleting this thread is the answer. She may just start another one. And then might MIGHT say that Karen is just avoiding the problem.
Either way its a no win situation.
Daisy and Delilah:
your post is eloquently written and rings the truth as always!