Oh god...I cannot believe this is happening...

[shais_mom]

I am so sorry you are dealing with this.
I wish you the best tho, but I agree with Julie, (?) if you got him from a reputable breeder, which it sounds like you did, she would want him back to rehome him herself, and not have you do it.
Good luck.

[captain]

Foam,

I am glad you are waiting to see how things progress over summer.

My darling Dalmatians only really grew up after 2 years of age!!!

and remember, we will all be here to help you and give you advice.

[dukedogsmom]

I really don't know what to say but if it were me, I would more than happily give up a thing from school before I was separated from a dog I loved. You need to take time to really think before you do anything.

[anna_66]

I've been waiting to reply because I really haven't known what to say.

I agree with Val, I'd gladly give up some school activities to be with my dog/dogs more. But that is just me, everyone is different.

I do hope that you decide to keep him as I would hate to never be able to see such sweet pictures as this...


Please keep us updated on how things are going

[DogLover9501]

I agree with Anna and whoever else said that also, I have already given up some things because I wanted Jasper, and I got him and so I have to make time for everything he needs, and I would also glady give up any extra/after school things to spend time with the pups.

[Miss Meow]

I read this yesterday, but couldn't respond because I was upset.

I can see the hurt in your posts and know that you don't really want to re-home him, but you need to do what's best for the dog. He can't make his own decision, so whichever way you go has to be for his welfare and happiness.

He's still in that energetic and boisterous stage. I'm sure over the summer with some training and maturity he'll settle a bit. The sausages are nine months old, and Buffy is entering a new phase of whining and tantrums, which is driving me nuts. But time, perseverance and tiny signs of improvement make a huge difference.

If you want to keep him badly enough, I know you'll find a way of re-organising your time and priorities to meet his needs.

In the meantime, do you know anyone in the neighbourhood who can take him for a walk once or twice a week? I used to do that for a couple of neighbours' dogs when they were away. You might find a dog lover who isn't able to own pets who can help you out a bit.

Or the local newspaper might have ads for dog walkers, pet sitters and doggy day care.

Do you have any friends or family in rural areas with land? Maybe Ozzy could do some overnight stays and romp around to his heart's content for a couple of days at a time?

Hope this helps.

{{{hugs}}}

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

I know it's hard...we had to give up our Dakota because he was too big of a handful, and not well trained from his previous owners. He was huge, and we didn't have the room, time or patience to train him.

Abby went through the same stage, that's when she chewed up the carpet in three spots I think... But Oz is a gooooood boy, you have such a wonderful relationship. I agree, see what summer brings and go from there. Good luck.

[Dogz]

I am sorry to hear this, Cayter.


If you are going to be busy this summer also, don't take a chance for him to be bored again.

It is just a stage, and it will pass over soon, and he will be easier to have around.


I have to agree with Anna. I would give up activities to be with my pets. I am in band, but I would never choose that over my pets. Never. Not one of them.

Hugs to you, Ozzy, and Darlin.

Please keep us updated.

Also, if it doesn't work out, I am sure if your breeder is reputable, she will help you find a loving home for him.

[bluekat]

Awww Cayter I'm so sorry to hear about this I'm glad to hear that you're waiting until summer to see what happens. But you should really think long and hard about this. I had to give up a cat before, and now I really really regret it.
Hope you will do what's best...and keep us updated!

[RobiLee]

I agree with Val and Anna. I really hope you think this through. Oh, how I would hate to not be able to see those pictures of the 2 of you together.

I had to wait and post to this one also. This one if very hard for me. I love my girls so much and can't imagine ever feeling the way you are feeling that is why it is so hard for me. I understand you have to do what is best for you and for Ozzy.

Hugs to you both....Robin

[Tonya]

I know the pain that you are feeling. I went through that twice. When I had to put Rosco to sleep for his agressiveness, and when I rehomed Teddy because I couldn't handle him. It is such a difficult decision.

I really think that you should give Oz more time. Those type of dogs are soooo hyper and take so long to mature, but they do. Dusty was really wound up forever. There were times where I didn't even enjoy being around him because he was so high maintenance. I am happy to say that at 3 years old, Dusty finally mellowed out. He's a great dog now. I honestly thought he'd never calm down though.

I know that you love Oz and you will make the best decision for him. I stand behind you no matter what you do.

[[email protected]]

It is great that you are involved in so many activities, and by reading this it sounds you may be very young, when you mentioned school, maybe you are in college? I know when you have a lot on your plate so to speak, you can easily make less time for your beloved pets, but I can tell how much you love Ozzy and am sure you are agonizing with the decision to find a new home for him. But if you can get together with your family and allow them to help you in this decision , it may be of help to you, and sometimes second opinions can be a life saver when you are having to make hard decisions. My little April is one that i couldn't part with, unless like you, I found that I couldn't give her the attention she needs. But like some of the others here have said, maybe you won't always be too busy? And maybe there are other activities, besides the ones you hold most important, sports, music, school, like time you might spend on the phone or computer or television you might could use for quality time with your sweet Ozzy? That would be nice if you could come up with something other than separating yourself from him when he loves you so much too. Anyway, I just hope that you will think it over some more, and I am sure if you take time to search your alternatives you will come up for the very best plan for Ozzy.

[shais_mom]

I am glad you have decided to give it thru the summer. Several of us would give anything to have our beloved pets that have passed back with all their faults, and this just tears my heart out.
I know that it would be difficult for a young one like yourself to give up things that you enjoy and might shape how you turn out but have you and your parents given it any thought?

[[email protected]]

So glad you decided to take some time to think this over!!! You are doing the right thing for Ozzy!
I knew you would do what was best for him!

[guster girl]

So, has anyone heard anymore from Foam on how things are going?