Hello, Note for Everyone ..

[sandragonfly]

my PMs had to be paused for now, and I can't respond to any of them right now. it's getting full anyway, only one more PM available - 249.

first of all, bash is last thing I need. reasons I am making this thread; there's too many PMs to reply individually about this and so this way, NO-ONE can say differently than what I say or said and a last warning. nothing about me should be a sercet.

this also is to say, apology for not been responding, and to those who have been PMing just to get the answers, please stop. what I did not post is when I decide what or what not to share with who. it seems people, and especially one person here who couldn't keep things between us and now I can't really trust anyone to PM anymore as it is the only way for me to communicate with others.. not on phone where no one records the conversation and pass out to whoever "they" trust.. this really sucks.

I bottle pretty (very) much inside as much as I could but the little leftover portion of my life privacy has been constantly violated by a few "friends" here. fool me once, shame on me but twice? you. I tried.



and for those who have been emailing, I just got to read all of them - just at this hour. I had another surgery on my knee because of the fell and am back in coverage where I can receive and send texts. I will try to get them back to you as soon as I can, not tonight - sorry to worry you.

ok, I don't have anything more to say, and I hope everyone will understand this and not take this personally as I did; we lived a different life. no need to respond, this is just for everyone to know and if you don't get your response back by end of this week, you know why. also, if you want to email me, PM karen - she should ask me first.

thank you for reading this.

[TATAGRAND]

What a good dog you are, Nana.

[Karen]

Yes, if anyone wants Gina's email address, PM me, I'll email her and ask, then I will get back to you with her emaill address if she okays it, and with a message if she doesn't.

[sasvermont]

I am so confused.

[shais_mom]

I am so confused.

ummm yea - agreed

[Hellow]

I am very confuzzled???

[G535]

Hang in there Gina, things can only get better!

[shais_mom]

does this mean she's leaving PT or????

[lizbud]

ummm yea - agreed

Yawn......... me too I guess.

[Scooter's Mom]

I haven't emailed or PM'd - I'm sorry. So many things have happened here, too. Please hang in there. I hope you begin healing since you had to have a 2nd surgery... I hope your ark is alright, too. Sending healing thoughts your way.

Crystal

[moosmom]

Well, I'm not confused nor am I the least bit surprized. As my mother always taught me, if you don't have anything NICE to say, don't. So I won't!!

[Karen]

For the confused: Gina posted this basically to say, please don't PM her - her box is 1 short of being full. She's got to go through and do some saving, deletinge etc., but that can wait until she's in a spot with a better connection. As you may recall, she accesses Pet Talk through her Sidekick, so always relies on a wireless connection, which is better in some places than others.

For now, if you want to contact Gina, PM me, and I will email Gina and ask her, and if she says okay, I will give you her email address.

That clearer?

[shais_mom]

That clearer?

Well, I'm not confused nor am I the least bit surprized. As my mother always taught me, if you don't have anything NICE to say, don't. So I won't!!

what she said.

[slleipnir]

I'm still confused about thing but it's none of my business. Goodluck Gina with whatever. I hope things get better (it sounds like things aren't great??)

[Husky_mom]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........