I need a hug so bad...

[K9soul]

Also..they say never to tighten up on the leash when walking by something you don't want her to tense up over.

I agree with that. Tash has a thing about lunging at kids if they run/ride bikes/skateboards etc right by her. I try to just keep her out of those situations, i.e. walk her at night, walk her when kids are in school, or go a different way if I see kids ahead. Tightening the leash really brings out the "must fight" instinct in the dog. I try to keep treats on me (cheese or hotdogs) and have her sit and focus on me for a treat if someone walks right by her while she nervous. This prevents that tight leash problem that only seems to make things worse. Of course if it's really a touchy situation and you have to keep her held tightly to you, sometimes that happens, and it has happened to me. I try to really avoid that though since it really isn't a good situation, you want her experiences to be happy and calm as possible.

[Glacier]

Also..they say never to tighten up on the leash when walking by something you don't want her to tense up over.

That's a really hard thing not to do, but it is true. I've noticed with Kayleigh that if I tense up, she reacts more. She follows my lead. A few weeks ago, we ran into a guy with an off-leash JRT, which to Kayleigh is a snack. Fortunately he had good verbal control on the dog and I managed to just keep walking. Kayleigh was interested but she didn't freak out. For her that's great progress!

[finn's mom]

Also..they say never to tighten up on the leash when walking by something you don't want her to tense up over.

As K9soul and Glacier have already agreed about this, I will, too. It is a hard habit to break, but, it has definitely helped with Finn. If I act nervous, so does he. I, too, try to keep treats with me. But, usually I just walk the opposite direction from whatever it is that's distracting.

[carole]

HUGS Audrey, first of all we all completely understand the love you have for Josie, most of us fit into the same category, I love my cats so much as well, and I have two children, they are just part of my family period, don't be too discouraged by what has happened recently, maybe it won't take too long to turn things around again, just be patient, and good luck to you,some great advice has been offered by those who have a lot of experience and I am sure it will help you, in the meantime take care and we are all here for you to listen and offer support.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

If she has you and you have her you'll work it out!

[slleipnir]

Thanks. I only read a few posts, cause I have to go out. I will finish when I'm home.

First off, I feel embarassed for posting this last night. I was just very upset.

Also, I don't think Duke is a bad person, or a bad trainer. I just don't agree that is for Josie. He has turned some vicious aggressive dogs that had nothing else for them other than to be put to sleep back on track. I have seen the dogs, and they are nice dogs. I do believe he saves a lot of dogs, and helps a lot of people. I just don't aggree with it for Josie.

[Vette]

Does your family have other dogs?

Kirby is the same way.. sorta.. he'll start fights for no reason.
but i keep him away from other dogs period. problem solved.
he has bit my mom before. but luckily only on the finger nail and it just brusied her nail. i dont think hed bite anyone else as long as hes not being possive over food or something.

but i live at home with my parents in the woods,, and have 17achers fenced in.
so the situation is probably very different

*huggies* to the both of you

[moosmom]

Slleipnir,

If it were up to me, and whether I take the risk of her biting someone, I'd put a muzzle on her. This would break my heart. But, if it boiled down to having her, as opposed to NOT having her, I'd much rather her be a little inconvenienced 3 times a day with a muzzle. That would give me 21 hours being with her without the muzzle!!!

((((HUGS)))))

Donna

[BitsyNaceyDog]

Slleipnir,

If it were up to me, and whether I take the risk of her biting someone, I'd put a muzzle on her. This would break my heart. But, if it boiled down to having her, as opposed to NOT having her, I'd much rather her be a little inconvenienced 3 times a day with a muzzle. That would give me 21 hours being with her without the muzzle!!!

((((HUGS)))))

Donna

I agree that having a muzzle is a good idea, just incase a situation arises and you feel you need one. A costumer of mine at my boarding facility has a JRT who is extremely dog agressive, yet great with people. Whenever he brings Buddy (the JRT) into my work he puts a muzzle on him because he knows there is a good chance he may cross another dogs path. After Buddy is in the back he never sees another dog and he is completly fine with us. We walk him when we have no other dogs outside and he does fine, and when he's inside he cannot see any other dogs from his room. The only time he has to wear the muzzle is when he's walking into my work.

[LKPike]

I can't help loving her like I do, even if it's not natural to love a dog so much.
...

every animal loving friend I have ever had, and several of them also have skin kids, love their dogs in the same way they love their children. I'm not joking when I call Jillian my little lover. She IS my world, if it came down to her or my husband - her, no second thought or hesitation or even slight feeling of guilt, her. so if it is unnatural to love a dog so much, then atleast your definatly not alone cause theres atleast a dozen ((myself and friends)) who are just as "freaky" as you