does anyone know why??

[JenBKR]

Originally posted by QueenScoopalot
Sorry CagneyDog...can't resist this one, but if I fall and get hurt will people send me "cars" too? I'd like a PT Cruiser, a vintage Mustang....OK...I'll shut up.

[kittycats_delight]

Originally posted by CagneyDog
What are the chances of that.

we will really never know will we. But stranger things have happened. Someone (family or friend) may not have liked the amount of time she spent her or what have you and did it for the purpose of getting her out of her and getting people to not trust her. Like I saoid much stranger things have happened.

And besides what gives any of us the right to be her judge, jury and executioner when we don't know the fact? Everything is only suppostion(sp?)

[sandragonfly]

this was the latest thread of her and "banned", only karen could that? I'm confused now.

well, assuming is last thing I would want to do, not until I know what really happened. "it's on internet so she lied." ..it's not just so fair for paula - how it'd be awful to have her come back and see all of these posts if it's true but if it's not true, we'll see what comes back for her. I'd rather keep it netural until I hear from her.

there could be many reasons.. I wonder if paula's mom made a thread and told paula, paula asked her to delete because of.. (to start one herself preferably?) -- or she got scared that someone were gonna visit her if her mother continues her thread and then provide out the detail information.. everything could be anything!

edited a few & fixed wrong page of the link above

[k9krazee]

Originally posted by kittycats_delight
we will really never know will we. But stranger things have happened. Someone (family or friend) may not have liked the amount of time she spent her or what have you and did it for the purpose of getting her out of her and getting people to not trust her. Like I saoid much stranger things have happened.

And besides what gives any of us the right to be her judge, jury and executioner when we don't know the fact? Everything is only suppostion(sp?)

Exactly...

[LKPike]

...how do you know "paula" deleted it? I don't know about the "jessica" thing but how often do you here of established members going troll?

wasn't there another thread about this, and didn't Karen reply that shes been in contact with her mother? let it go. it'll all come out someday, for good or bad, I'll gladly swallow my foot if I'm wrong, but until then, how unfair of you all to speak like this.

[PJ's Mom]

Originally posted by lvpets2002
{how do you tell if someone is banded?}

Under their name it says "banned".

[Anita Cholaine]

All this situation is so strange for me....Paula is such a nice person, it's hard to believe that she's lied to us..... I can't imagine why could she do something like that...........

[LuvGold00]

Paula spoke to me the other night, she said she had Karen close her account. She was hurt by all the comments about Lexi, I guess. I don't know what really happened, I never saw the thread about her being in the hospital, I don't think we'll ever really know.

[catnapper]

This whole thing is odd... first off, I agree with Michelle that we don't have the facts. From what I can tell from her past posts, she has "issues". Whether or not her parents really DID hit her, there's an issue: being hit by your parents, or making it up. Either way, she needs help, not criticism.

Secondly, I've never seen banned under any member's title before. She could have changed it manually like we all do. She might be feeling like she IS banned, whether or not Karen and Paul officially banned her. If I were feeling particuarly snippy today I might consider changing my own title to banned just to show how easily fooled everyone can be. Don't be fooled by appearances.

Wait til Karen steps in to clear the water. Until then, all this speculation only will hurt one member who obviously needs help.

[petslover]

I just have to say that I know Paula, Lexi, and Skye are real. I Have seen them three on webcam because Paula was showing me how Lexi did some tricks.

I am not to sure about all the stories though. I guess we will just have to wait and see. Paula if you are reading this. Please give us an update.

[NoahsMommy]

I agree with Kim and Michelle. Who are we to judge, especially when we don't KNOW the facts??

Kim, you're dead on. We need to be mature about things and realize that if she did indeed make this up, she needs support, not harsh words. That other thread was so mean...

[JenBKR]

Originally posted by NoahsMommy
That other thread was so mean...

Uh oh, I missed that. What thread are you talking about?

[popcornbird]

I have no doubt that Paula and Lexi/her rabbit are real...but I do feel very doubtful about the situation the other day. When her 'mom' posted, it just didn't seem right. Then it was deleted. Then her mom told Karen she didn't delete it. Meanwhile.....I PM'd LexiLover, and she told me she and her mom were in Montreal, and not even around, and she didn't know what was going on. BUT..her 'mom' told Karen she didn't delete it. So......if her mom was in Montreal, how did her mom PM Karen? It just wasn't adding up. Everything seemed odd and fake....like a bunch of lies trying to cover up previous lies. I told her in my PM that if she was telling the truth, I would advise her to come to PT and post HER story, and clear things up. She never replied to me after that. This was before she was banned. Her not replying when I told her to clear things only further convinced me that the falling story was a pure lie. She was never at the hospital...she was answering PM's.

I did talk to Karen though PM's, but I would hope she will clear things herself. I don't want to post her PM's publically, as I don't feel its appropriate....so let's wait for Karen to let everyone know the whole story. I for one do believe Paula lied, but at the same time, I feel only an incredibly lonely/insecure person would do that.....and she would need true friends to guide her, rather than have the world turn their backs at her. Just how I feel. That being said, there is NO excuse to make up such lies and deceive people...ever. Sometimes young people feel the need to be accepted, and do weird things because of that. I wish that wasn't the case. I do feel she needs a good friend that can help her. That being said...trust is one thing that is very difficult to put back together again once its broken. I would forgive her, but if she truly DID lie, I would find it very difficult to trust her for a long, long time. I told her to come back and explain. She didn't.

[kittycats_delight]

I don't think we really know anything. Anyone could have posted that first thread. It only takes a little know how to obtain someone's password. And if someone really had something against Paula and wanted her out of here they could have done that. And once enough replies were made they deleted it making it appear that Paula had done it herself. I was talking to Paula as well and she told me the same thing as she told you PCB. She and her mom where busy all that day. If someone got into her mom's account then that someone also could have replied to Karen's PM. We don't know the facts. We connot condemn her without proof.

*EDITED* to add link for Jen. Here is the other thread Kelly was talking about. http://www.petoftheday.com/talk/show...e&pagenumber=1

[popcornbird]

Originally posted by kittycats_delight
I don't think we really know anything. Anyone could have posted that first thread. It only takes a little know how to obtain someone's password. And if someone really had something against Paula and wanted her out of here they could have done that. And once enough replies were made they deleted it making it appear that Paula had done it herself. I was talking to Paula as well and she told me the same thing as she told you PCB. She and her mom where busy all that day. If someone got into her mom's account then that someone also could have replied to Karen's PM. We don't know the facts. We connot condemn her without proof.

Karen would know...she can check what IP address the PM is coming from. I believe so anyway. I hope Karen will come and let us all know the details.