"So, when are you due?"

[Jamieejo85]

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. Also I am sorry that your husband wasn't as supportive as you would have liked him to be. TONS of hugs coming your way..... I am overweight as well but I know that I am still pretty, although I would like to be thinner. I never show that my weight bothers me but once I heard someone call me "big" and I just burst into tears. Anyway, I hope you feel super better soon!!!

[shais_mom]

people need to learn NOT to ask that question!!

idiots



((hugs to you))

[PJ's Mom]

I did that to a lady when I was around 18. I was stupid and felt about as horrible as a person could feel when the lady told me she wasn't pregnant. I have never asked the question again.

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

(((HUGS)))

I KNOW how that question can make you feel - it has happened to me on several occasions, and my response was always "I'm not pregnant - I'm just fat" whilst trying to look like I'm not upset, but I ALWAYS cried for hours afterwards.

Of course now that I AM pregnant I am sure that people will be making comments about my due date - and assuming I am further along than I am - I am going to try not to get too upset!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Some people can be so thoughtless and stupid at times - try not to let her remark get to you.......she may be feeling even worse about it than you do

"That" question and "cheer up it may never happen" should never, ever be used. I was on the end of the "cheer up" one just two days after my Dad died.......my reply cannot be repeated here!

Hope you have a really good day today

[jenluckenbach]

I am so sorry that your entire day was crappy. Why does everything always happen at the same time??

As for the pregnant comment, get this one! I walked into a hospital emergency room one desperately sick and the first person to greet me asked if I was in labor. But realizing that I AM indeed fat, I just let it slide and said no.

Here's hoping for a better tomorrow!