Prayers for our friend K9Karen please

[ChrisH]

Oh, Karen, I am so sorry. {{big hugs}} I wiil be keeping you in my prayers.

Chris

[dukedogsmom]

It's so sad to hear about her mother. I knew how much she was going through. Life is so unfair sometimes. Karen, I am so very sorry. There's nothing really we can say to make the pain go away. We're all here for you.

[gini]

Dear Karen, I was so sorry to hear of the untimely passing of your Mother.

Just when you think you can handle no more - God gives you another task - to deal with the grief of your loss.

Please comfort yourself in the fact that you were an outstanding daughter and gave your Mom such good care.

You have my prayers.

[Cincy'sMom]

Karen, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[wolflady]

Gosh, I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. Prayers are on the way during this difficult time.

*****hugs*****
Karen

[sandragonfly]

of course, anything for her. hate to see anybody being in this situation.

I'm so very sorry you had to be in the bed while your mother's dying. I think that's a very rare tradegy.. hugs you much!

no rush but hope to hear from you again soon, I'd be much happier to see you again! hang in there, this site is hanging around you.. xo,

~ gina (& her ark)

[jackiesdaisy]

Karen, dear friend, you have our deepest sympathies in the loss
of your Mother. You have been such a wonderful daughter to her and I'm sure she is looking down and smiling, she is free from the pain and will be watching your progress as you heal from your surgery and please take care of yourself at this difficult time.
Again our deepest Sympathies.
Jackie, Don, Perry and Daisy

[Bigyummydog]

Sending good thoughts your way. So sorry.

[AmberLee]

Karen,

Thinking of you and holding you in our prayers... {{{big, gentle hugs}}}

[momoffuzzyfaces]

Lots of prayers on the way from me too!

[K9karen]

I thought I'd look at PT to get my mind off things, and was surprised to see this thread. Thanks so much, Pam.
Have not slept since Thursday. Thank God, for my parents' infinite wisdom by prearranging all details years in advance to take the burden off my brother and I. Except for phone calls and some minor things, we've been walking around in a daze all day. None of us can seem to settle down for long. Sweet Klo in HER infinite canine wisdom has determined that I need her constant attention and companionship, complete with snuggles and whimpers and loving stares. Quite amazing and beautiful. It easily starts me crying again. My little darling.
In an effort to comfort my mother in her last agonizing moments, I bent over her and pulled a muscle in my hip and injured my back. It took me over an hour to realize I couldn't stand up, even with a walker. That said, I no longer give a hoot about my obsession with keeping the house clean and ready for her return, cooking or caring for anyone else but myself so I can try to heal physically, emotionally and mentally. I will talk to my lawyer regarding my mother's inept nursing home care during the last 2 weeks. Her time may have been up, but her last few days of torment could have been avoided. I will reclaim her dignity if it's the last thing I do.
After 54 years of being with her, my mind only repeats her last few minutes. It's like a nightmare. I will need counseling. She was doing okay before I had my surgery. She was so concerned. She will never get to physically see me well again.
Thank God we always, always, in our family ended our days with kisses and I love you. We had our moments but were quite a team. I'll never be the same.

[popcornbird]

Oh Karen, I am so very sorry to hear of your great loss.

{{{hugs}}}

[Corinna]

Karen I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you wanted her back home. {{HUG}}X 1000 Prayers for you and your health and quick recovery. If I can be of any help please call or e-mail.

[slick]

Karen.....my tears are flowing as I type this. I can't imagine what you must be going through at a time like this.

{{{hugs}}} to you and I will come back later to respond again. My heart is hurting for you too much right now.

[shais_mom]

prayers - hugs- and love sent Karen's way