I'm so upset about Disney

[micki76]

Originally posted by Uabassoon
Overall do you think Disney is still happy? If the answer is yes then enjoy your time with her as much as possible. When you can honestly say to yourself that Disney isn't happy, then that will be the time to sit down and think about what you will need to do next.

I agree with Laura. I only wish we had made the decision to put Aneko down sooner. By the time my husband said he was ready, she was too far gone to care. She was always scared, always pacing and panting. She rarely ate unless we showed her the food, and she never drank unless we put the bowl in front of her face. The rest of the time she just slept; perhaps to escape the demons in her mind or to get some relief from some pain that we didn't know about. I don't know what to tell you, Lori. My only advice is not to wait too long. I still beat myself up that we should've ended Aneko's misery sooner. She was SO unhappy that last month or so.

{{{{{Hugs to you all}}}}}

[jazzcat]

Thank you all so much.

Overall I feel that Disney is still mostly happy. Even when she is doing her mindless pace and stare I don't really feel that she is unhappy. Sometimes I can tell by the look in her eye that she is really scared and confused but that is not frequently.

Reading all your comments and advice has really helped me. I don't believe it is time yet but you all have helped me makes some guidelines to go by in this tought decision.

Disney and I just took a walk through the yard and even though she wasn't running and bouncing around like she used to she still seem to enjoy the sunshine and fresh air. She went up the deck steps without much trouble. That was good to see.

I'm feeling better now, thank you for all the shoulders to cry on.

[aly]

My great uncle is in town visiting right now. He is about to turn 80 years old. He recently had a heart attack, only has use of 25% of his lung (due to another medical problem), is diabetic, and has overcome cancer. He looks and acts GREAT though. I did get sad last night because he seemed to start staring into space. I think he was just tired though.

I think dogs may be similar. We get sad to see them staring off, but maybe their mind and/or body is just tired and thats all.

Just thought I'd add that. I know when I was going through my problems with Peka, everyone else's experiences really did help me too. I bet Amy will have some advice for you. She lost her Smokey when he was 18 and having some problems as well.

Still sending you hugs, prayers, and gentle pats to Disney.

[ramanth]

*HUGS* I'm sure when the time comes you'll know what to do.

And we'll be here.

[shutterbug0303]

Everyone's information was so helpful and insightful. I did not have to make a decision like this personally but my parents did about my RB Zeus. He had cancer along with several other ailments that I can't exactly remember. Reading so many of these posts brought back memories of having to watch in slowly failing I am crying just thinking about when each of us has seen with our RB's that had to be PTS. Remember that it is for their own comfort when the time comes. And like everyone has said, you will know when the time comes. It sounds like you still have some time to celebrate Disney's life and enjoy your time with her. You always have our ears and shoulders, and it sounds like your husband will certainly be there for you and Disney when the time comes too.

{{{hugs}}} and prayers that your time with Disney will be blessed and you will have comfort when the decision is made that it is for her best interest...giving her a chance to feel all better again and play hard once more.

[fritz03]

I know how you feel.We went through the same thing with Ruffles.First ,he went blind,then deaf,was then tripping over himself and couldn't stand for long periods without falling so it was Dad's decision as hard as it was to have him put down.It was sad seeing him go downhill that last year.He had been so healthy up to then.I guess if he doesn't get better sometime soon,I feel you may have to make a hard choice,but it may be the best way.At least he would be out of pain.

[NoahsMommy]

(((Lori)))

I agree with the others, if she's still happy, just keep an eye on her. I knew with Livvy...so I think you just know.

I hope that when it is time, you know that you gave Disney lots of love and a truly wonderful home.

Hugs,
Kelly

[petslover]

I could imagine are you upset about Disney. Thats a hard thing to think about. I wish I could give you advice, but I don't know what to say, but I'm sorry at a time like this. Prayers are being sent your way though. Good Luck and God Bless.

[kimlovescats]

Lori, I don't know what to say .... I am now teary eyed as well. I agree that you don't want her to get too far gone and suffering, but the way you described her walk outside then I would enjoy doing these types of things with her for as long as you can. I guess the main thing is to mentally and emotionally try to prepare yourself .... which is not easy to do, of course. Cherish all the good days, take pictures, hold her and tell her how much you love her. I believe that when it is time, Disney will let you know.

LOVE AND HUGS,
Kim

[shais_mom]

I don't have any advice Lori but thoughts and prayers are with you..
{{hugs to you and Disney}}

[pitc9]

First of all... ~*hugs*~ to you and Disney.

My mom was faced with this at the start of the new year. Her Pom/Poodle Harley was about 12, was diabetic, blind, going deaf, having accidents, etc. She waited to long, when she finally decided to take her to the vet to have her put down, Harley went into seizures in the waiting room, and never recovered. She was gone only hours later.

It just would have been nice to have Harley go to the Bridge with out going through the seizures and the fear she felt going through them.

Disney will let you know when it's time to go... just make sure you hear her.