This lady is making me sooooooooo angry!!!

**catfamily** · 03-02-2005, 11:25 AM

Originally posted by Jods
~~~HUGS Cass!!!~~~
You are doing your best and the RIGHT thing. I doubt that she could take Onyx from you because SHE was not caring for him she could be charged for that if he was her cat anyways. What does she expect for you and other ppl to spay, feed, worm and care for the cats, but they belong to her??? This woman needs a reality check. I would if I were you call the police and make a harrasment report tell them that you fear she may take YOUR cat all you have to say is she has been mouthing at you, this will scare her anyways cuz she doesn't want the police around with her drug habits. I really doubt that she could take Onyx away because what good would she do for him NONE! Well good luck anyways I hope it all works out.

I agree 100%.Maybe you should make the call just to save your kitty from being taken away from that woman.

**RedHedd** · 03-02-2005, 12:56 PM

Originally posted by Laura's Babies
As you said she is on drugs? That explains it and I would not worry about her or what she thinks! Those drugs have warped her thinking so she is never going to make sense to you...

I couldn't have said it better .... it's the drugs talking. I'm with others here; if she continues with her verbal abuse, I'd call the authorities on her. Landlords do not appreciate tenants on drugs.

**luckies4me** · 03-02-2005, 03:34 PM

Thanks everyone. If she starts up again I will definitely let the landlords know, and if she gets too bad file a report with the police. Onyx goes in to the vets in two weeks, and I'm going to try and bring his sister in too so she can get spayed. She is definitely old enough to have her first heat soon. I'm just worried about the mom getting pregnant again. I don't want the cycle to start all over again. I have to call the Feral Cat Coalition today as well, as they are helping me with the vet bills. For only $45 dollars I can have each cat spayed/neutered, vaccinated, tested, ear clipped, have Frontline put on, dewormed and microchipped! It's a great deal!

**QueenScoopalot** · 03-03-2005, 01:26 PM

It varies from community to community what constitutes ownership of an animal, but around here, if you feed a cat, it's considered yours. And you've been doing that already. There always has to be one or two nutcases out there that interfere, and make a big deal out of what should be viewed as an act of compassion!

Keep up the good work, and ignore the junkie.

**luckies4me** · 03-03-2005, 08:44 PM

Well just a few minutes ago I was outside having a cigarette with my bf and Onyx came up and was being all lovey dovey like usual. I was petting him etc. and the lady came outside. He ran downstairs for attention and the lady started yelling at him and chasing him away. Then she says, "I hope you're not encouraging him to go up there. It's not a good idea". I mean sceaming at Onyx!!!

My bf and I looked at eachother. I was shaking. I just went inside because if not I would have punched her!

**QueenScoopalot** · 03-04-2005, 07:38 AM

I think I'd get Onyx, neuter him, and keep him inside away from this nut! You never know if she'll take him for a "ride" never to be seen again.

Maybe a restraining order is needed to stop this woman from making your life miserable.

I'd get a voice activated tape recorder, and keep it with me while outside to record the hostility from the nut.

**catfamily** · 03-04-2005, 07:41 AM

I agree with QSL.Keep the cat indoors and neutor him.I wouldn't take the chance.She'll dump the cat somewhere far away just to spite you.She's a very sick woman from what I can tell by how she talks to you.Poor kitty.

**luckies4me** · 03-04-2005, 03:38 PM

Well we are just now adjusting him to being outside. He's been a feral all his life so it's hard to keep him inside ASAP. She treats him well, she just doesn't want ME neat him, so she shoos him off. When we leave though, we're taking ALL the cats with us, feral or not! We'll just build an enclosure outside for the feral ones. I think that's the best thing. I don't want to leave them here when I leave, so all 5 will be going with us! Oh my, does this now qualify me as a crazy cat lady?

I REALLY love the idea about the tape recorder. I will go out tomorrow ( I have Dylan all day today ) and buy one. I would have never even thought of that! I'll ask my vet at Onyx's appointment what constitutes as being an owner of an animal. I'm about ready to just tell her to shove it LOL.

**Karen** · 03-04-2005, 03:49 PM

That lady has many problems, especially if you are correct about her drug habits. What she thinks of you shouldn't matter one bit. You are not evil, neither are the kitties, and the kitties know that, too!

Kisses to Dylan from us! Keep him away from the crazy lady, too!

**luckies4me** · 03-04-2005, 03:57 PM

Thanks Karen!

**QueenScoopalot** · 03-04-2005, 04:56 PM

Local ACO officers may be able to help you out as well. Not only with answering what constitutes ownership, but maybe finding help to trap and alter the others out there as well, without this womans interference! Have fun with the tape recorder, but make sure to keep being nice on your end...future evidence, and makes you look good, and her well...

**luckies4me** · 03-04-2005, 06:53 PM

Originally posted by QueenScoopalot
Local ACO officers may be able to help you out as well. Not only with answering what constitutes ownership, but maybe finding help to trap and alter the others out there as well, without this womans interference! Have fun with the tape recorder, but make sure to keep being nice on your end...future evidence, and makes you look good, and her well...

LOL! That's why I just went inside yesterday when she was yelling. I just completely ignored her.