Update on the Drunk Driver who hit me

**cocker_luva** · 02-10-2005, 03:48 PM

take it to your lawyer

**Aspen and Misty** · 02-10-2005, 05:00 PM

::HUGS::

I'm so sorry, I didn't know this happened

I would send a COPY to your lawyer. But keep the original. I would also keep his address. One day you might want send him a letter back for YOUR sake. I know that sometimes people NEED to say that they forgive the person who has hurt them, even if it is years down the road.

::HUGS::

Ashley

**moosmom** · 02-10-2005, 05:25 PM

I would DEFINITELY turn everything you get from this person over to your lawyer. That's what lawyers are for. Do not talk to anyone about it. Refer anyone who calls to your lawyer.

I'm so sorry you lost your little girl in this accident. Tragedies like this CAN be avoided by not drinking and driving. It's just too bad some people don't realize it till it's too late.

(((((hugs))))

**mina'smomma** · 02-11-2005, 07:36 AM

This is what we've decieded to do. After showing Lee a copy of the letter (I turned it over to the lawyer after work last night) We've decieded to let the lawyer handle it. He has offered to write a letter to the guy telling him to never contact me again, and that should he feel the need to try and correspond with us anymore that it is all to be directed to him and not to my work. At this time we've chosen not to respond personally to his letter and may never do so, but if we do it will be us who contact him. Should he violate this request than we will have no other action than to place a PPO (Personal Protection Order) out on him.