What should I do :( :( :(

[pitc9]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
My parents are still together, (41 years) but now that I'm married, it's tough splitting time during the holidays between my family and his. It's ALWAY a fight!!

[Harmanie]

please don't hate christmas just because your parents are being kinda childesh. I hope that you can have a good christmas. I would hate it if they blow it for you. Are you sure that they won't change thier minds and just spend it together to make you happy?

[Tonya]

Originally posted by BCBlondie
Meh... don't be sorry.. I personally don't really care. I mean, I would LOVE to have that perfect family with both parents, etc etc... buuuut that's never going to happen. Plus, I call my stepdad "Dad".. he's been the only real fatherly figure in my life.. but you're right - it definitely isn't easy...

That is how it is for me. When you all hear me refer to my dad, I am talking about the man who raised me. My biological father died when I was young and my "step" dad raised me since I was 3. I don't like using the word step because he's treated me like his own from the start.