Prayers going out to your whole extended family. Has your Dad been evaluated by a medical professional as to Alzheimers, or what else might be happening with him? What kind of assistance is available from the local city/town government? Would he be okay, for example, with Meals on Wheels and a home health aid visiting a couple times a week? We went through this with my beloved Great Aunt. The city of Newton, where we live, has excellent Elder Care people, and their visits, and a visiting Nurse, allowed to her stay in her own home much longer than she otherwise would have been able to. She did end up in a nursing home eventually, but it was done with much care and planning, and my Aunt was able to be a part of it, so it wasn't as bad as it could have been.

Ask me anything you want. Been there, done that. Ain't easy.