What is the first thing that you notice about a person?

[Karen]

Voice, mannerisms, eyes ...

[Russian Blue]

Originally posted by Tonya
When you meet someone, what is the first thing (physical) that you notice about them? What attracts you?

Mike has a total ear fetish. All the time, I'll say a girl's pretty and Mike will go "Yeah, but her ears are hella fat."
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I've never heard of a person having a ear fetish!! Oh great, now I have to worry about how fat my ears are?? I thought I just had to worry about my waistline!


The second thing I notice is their shoes. I really feel that you can tell alot about someone just by the shoes they wear. You can tell if they are an athlete, professional, trendy, not-so-vain, broke, big spender, etc...
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I hate shoe shopping! That is the ultimate nightmare for me and I do it only when I really have to. I have 4 pairs of shoes and dread the day I have to replace them!

I've never payed attention to shoes, but I do totally notice a person's eyes when I first meet them. You can tell a lot about a person, if they are lying, happy, interested etc. all by subtle movements or shifting of the eyes.

[Amber]

hair and there eyes

[Kfamr]

First thing I notice, if we're talking appearance-wise is Lips.

I love big lips. ( EX: Nelly's )
then, their Eyes.
then, their smile.
then, their hair.

Also, I love someone who has a unique style and a great personality.

Girls don't totally attract to me, but I guess lips is the first thing I notice. (EX: Angelina Jolie)


I just love lips.

But, then again, what attracts me to all people is if they have a furry friend. (the living breathing type with 4 legs.)

[primabella]

I notice hair first, all the time. Then usually smiles and as said, how often they use it.

Tonya, I so agree with you about the shoes. I think the same way!

[Uabassoon]

I know it's kind of weird but the first thing I always notice is what they are wearing. I look to see if they have a sense of style and if so what their style is. I can't date someone if I don't like the way they dress and if I get to know a person and really start to like them, then I plan a shopping trip and teach them how to dress.

[anna_66]

The very first thing is the eyes.
But then the voice. They have to have a voice I want to listen to or I just can't stand to be around them.

[bluekat]

I'm the smile and eyes type.
The first thing I thought about when I saw the title of your thread is eyes. I love blue eyes, lol. I love any color eyes except for brown
I also like nice smiles, and they have to smile a lot too.

But eyes are the first thing I notice. But they also have to have a great personality too. I know that's not a physical thing, but its really important.
There are a couple of guys that I know who are cute and everything, but has the Worst personality.

[stacwase]

Physically, eyes and build.

But once I start talking to a person it's their mannerisms that I notice most. Do they look me in the eye? Do they stand close enough? Do they stand too close? Are they touchy-feely?

I've been creeped out by men other women swoon over, and attracted to physically unattractive men, based on their mannerisms.

Oh - and smell! That's a big one. I get really grossed out by men who wear too much cologne, or scents I don't like. I'd rather a man didn't wear cologne. But I just love the smell of soap, shaving cream, and deodorant.

[RICHARD]

If they are breathing....

Then hair.....
A tiara is a good thing.


Shoes-
But no one wears glass slippers anymore.

[ticosmyham]

The first thing I notice in guys, is their hair. I LOVE LONG HAIR!! Other than that, I don't really know!

[2kitties]

Originally posted by RICHARD
If they are breathing....

Then hair.....
A tiara is a good thing.


Shoes-
But no one wears glass slippers anymore.

OMG Richard, that's exactly how I picture you!

[wolfsoul]

Originally posted by Kfamr


But, then again, what attracts me to all people is if they have a furry friend. (the living breathing type with 4 legs.)

Same here!

I always see guys running around with their dog, or throwing a ball, and I automatically get very emotional. It's unexplainable. I'm like "I want that guy!!!" Lol.

[Kfamr]

Originally posted by wolfsoul
Same here!

I always see guys running around with their dog, or throwing a ball, and I automatically get very emotional. It's unexplainable. I'm like "I want that guy!!!" Lol.

Yeah... That and guys with little kids. I don't care if it's not theirs (i'd actually rather it not be) but the fact that they actually take the time and play with their neice/nephew/cousin/ whatever.. is so cute.
Anyways.

[KYS]

I'm an eye, smile/teeth person too.

Their is nothing more inviting than a warm friendly
smile with nice teeth.