I don't want to get all into it. But that did happen to me and I didn't tell anyone for years. It's hard to explain, but it really damages your self esteem so much that you blame yourself. You don't want to tell others because you are afraid that they won't believe you or that they'll blame you.

It really upsets my husband that I won't do anything about it. He wants me to give this guy's name so he could find him and I won't. He doesn't understand that pressing charges or getting even will just relive the memory. I'd rather put it behind me.