Our beloved dog Tina, a 12 year old Golden Retriever, is not doing so well. There isn't a day that she doesn't pee or poop inside and it is obvious that she cannot control it herself at all anymore. She can just be walking around and peeing at the same time, seemingly oblivious to what she's doing. We're basically talking about putting her to sleep everyday now, but I just can't handle it... I hardly understand that she might not be here for much longer. I just can't realize it, I can't even cry about it! I just sit here, without knowing what to do and without even being able to cry or vent my emotions. I mean, maybe she isn't suffering? She just can't control her pee and poop organs, she's still a good and happy dog! Maybe she can live for many more years! I can deal with wiping up her stuff everyday, as long as I can have her with me! But then there's this little evil voice telling me that it's cruel to keep her like this and God I just don't know what to do. Even now, when all I fell like doing is banging my head against my keyboard and screaming I can't cry! I don't know what to do anymore...

Answer me this, please: Is it cruel to Tina to keep her when she's like this?