Goodbye forever.*

[Daisy's Mom]

Violet I am so sorry! I know there is nothing to say to make the pain go away, so just know my thoughts and prayers are with you. Get comfort from Roxy, and from knowing that Rebel is dancing around at the Rainbow Bridge, safe and happy. Please don't blame yourself over this. Learn from your mistake but don't be too harsh on yourself. I haven't known you for very long but the impression I get is that you are a very good mother. Know that time heals all, and we at Pet Talk are always here for you to help that healing process!

Love,
Bridget and Daisy

[nsweezie]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Please know that it was not your fault. It is a terrible thing that the driver did, not even stopping to see if the dog was alright.

[pyrlab]

I feel your pain, as a short while ago a similar thing happened to my black lab. Right now it probably feels as though nothing will ever make the pain you are feeling and that hole in your heart go away. But you will heal with time and you will be able to cherish those wonderful memories of Rebel. Roxy is feeling a great loss too, so give her a big hug and shed those painful tears with her. God Bless you, I am so sorry for the loss of your angel Rebel.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

I'm so sorry to hear about Rebel.
In the Loss of Your Loved One
In every life,
there comes a time
to walk in shadows
and in sunlight,
to hear silence and song,
to shed tears of sadness
and of joy,
to forget what
has been taken,
and remember
what has been given.

Again, I'm so sorry to hear about your dear Rebel.

With Sympathy,
LabLover and sadie May

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***Sadie May and LabLover***

[Jasper's Mom]

My heart aches for you. A part of your heart is missing and the pain is unbearable right now. Taking care of yourself and Roxy is so important for now and at some day and time you will find time has helped to heal your heart. The Humane Society in my town actually has a group of people who get together to share their stories of loss of their animals. I hope you can find such a group at your home town and in us. It helps to talk, talk, talk to ease the pain, if only for a few minutes. You will be able to go on again for awhile until the pain gets heavy, and then you go ahead and let it off to us again. Anyone connected with animals in any way will help to share your grief. I found making a memorial, with pictures and other items, helped me a lot. Making tributes in his name, doing something for other dogs that have no one, in his name. In small ways it helps. Nothing can take the pain away, but you can turn your loss into some type of good to help others in Rebel's name. I have been there, I feel your pain. Talk to everyone here and we will help you. You are not alone, we share your grief.

[Rottie]

Oh Violet! I am so sorry about Rebel. And we were just getting to know him... I'm so so sorry.

[Genia]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I could take away the pain but I can't. It will take time. Just try to remember the good times. You will never forget but with time, the pain will lessen. Jackie posted the perfect poem. Please read it and try to abide by it. I know how you feel. I lost Dusty and Lucky to untimely deaths. Please believe me: It is not your fault! I won't tell you not to mourn. Not to would be inhuman. But remember, you gave Rebel the happiest times he has ever experienced in his life. You, for a while, made a difference. Remember that. Rebel is having fun at the Rainbow Bridge. I'm sure he will be friends with my Lucky and Dusty.

[Sudilar]

Oh no!! I am so sorry for you and Roxy. What a terrible tragedy. It was an accident. Don't blame yourself. Rebel had a wonderful life with you. Think of the good times and remember he is with so many of the dear departed dogs from Pet Talk. I know how much it hurts. I am so very sorry.
Sue

[Violet]

My angel gone....
My silent child,
my precious baby,
close to my heart,
I'll keep you with me,
an important job,
God has sent for you,
there is love to give,
and work to do.

He needs an angel,
big and strong,
to shine light on many,
and give love to all.
Before you go,
I give you this,
half of my heart,
and one last kiss.

I'll miss you dearly
that I know,
but by God you were chosen,
so to heaven you must go.


I can't seem to get my mind off of Rebel. I try to think of the good times we had, but every time I do, I just start to cry again. But I guess it's good to cry. It eases your pain. Roxy isn't doing well either. I'm tring to take of alot of time with her, but I think she's going to mourn herself to death. Any ideas of how I can get her to eat?

Violet,

I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner but I've had to re-register AGAIN. I was Tanya14, then Tanya1414 and now Tanya&Hans. I am so sorry about Rebel. I lost my boxer, Rocky, suddenly on May 7th. I truly understand what you are going through. All I can say is that it takes time. I no longer cry myself to sleep. I no longer think about the last hour of his life but now think of all the good times we had. There are support groups that meet monthly for grieving pet owners. This really helped me to talk to people that were going through the same pain. I also have another dog and he is still grieving. He's very lonely. Give Roxy lots and lots of love and attention. The good news is I'm going to look at puppies this weekend. Maybe in time you can do the same. Time heals. A week after I lost Rocky, one of my best friends was killed in a car accident. They were the worst 2 weeks of my life. But, we have to keep going, keep moving on. We are still alive and we have to live every day like it's our last. My prayers are with you and please try and think of the good times. You loved him so much and he had a wonderful life, even if it was cut too short. Feel free to e-mail me if you want to talk or vent. Take care and remember it WILL get better.

Tanya

[Stenograsaurus]

Violet, I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing I can do or say can ease your pain right now but I just want you to know that you and Roxy are in my prayers.
When I lost my dog in January, my other dog would not eat for two days. When my grandmother died, my aunt (who grandma lived with) took their dog to the vet because she was not doing well. He said that they mourn just like we do.
Just give Roxy lots of love and some time. Try hand feeding her. She will eventually eat again. It's only been two days. Maybe if you're really worried you could call your vet and see what he or she says.

I have had the same problem with Hans since Rocky died. I find if I put 2 pieces of food in his mouth, it gets his appetite going. Also, if I pour beef bouillon over his food, he'll eat.

[jackiesdaisy1935]

Perry grieved so much when Kona passed on last November, he would go in his crate and no amount of coaxing would bring him out. Kona was quite sick and pretty old and he would lick her eyes and face during the day., he was very close to her. We just let him have his time to grieve and in a few days he came back and joined the family. Just give it a little time and maybe offer some food in your hand for a while.

[Violet]

Well Roxy still isn't eating, and I'm supposed to go to the lake this weekend. I'm going to take her with me. Maybe it'll cheer her up a little.

[Albea]

Violet:
I know what a devastating experience it is to loose a beloved furry friend. When one of the dogs of a Yankee Golden Retriever Rescue member goes to Rainbow Bridge, we send them this poem. Many people have told us that it brought them a sense of peace:
LOVED DOGS DO NOT DIE
We have a secret,you and I,that no one else shall know.
For who but I can see you lie each night, in fireglow?
And who but I can reach my hand before I go to bed,
And feel the living warmth of you and touch your silken head?
And only I walk woodland paths and see, ahead of me
Your red form racing with the wind, so young again and free.
And only I can see you swim in every brook I pass.
And, when I call, no one but I can see the bending grass.
by Beulah Fenderson Smith
My thoughts are with you and Roxie.