Exactly. Everyone, absolutely EVERYONE, deserves our respect. If they are complaining to me, if they give me snide comments, if they are making rude gestures, if they're passing rumors about me, I will not further the negativity. I will take it, understand where they are coming from, and use the adversity as an exercise of willpower and compassion.
I know exactly what you mean, Alyssa. I'm 16 and was the zoo camp intern this summer. Every day, I met parents who were rushed, upset, and frustrated by one thing or another trivial thing. Although their negativity could have easily frustrated me, I would not allow it and I responded back with a smile and calm composure. Every time I was met with adversity, I tried to understand their side and responded back with positive compromise.
...Do you know, that by the end of the summer, most of the staff that I worked with didn't even know my age anymore? They all thought I was 18+ (they thought I was a college student). In fact, I was even offered a job to teach the zoo camp, an opportunity formally available only to college graduates.
Dealing with humans is the same with dealing with dogs: Exude calm confidence, leadership, and never lose your temper. In a matter of weeks, everybody will gauge you by your mental maturity, and not your physical years.
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