I need honest opinions

[Vela]

I agree with Jess, not to mention, he sure spent a lot in gas just to try to get a free meal if that's what he was after, but it's always better to go with your gut no matter what, and if you didn't feel comfortable, it's better to call it off for sure.

[catnapper]

We don't trust our instincts enough. Once when I was single, I met a guy at a bar who asked me out for a date. My instincts were SCREAMING that he was going to steal my car on our date. So I was looking for confirmation. These were the days before cell phones, so at one point he got up and made a call on the pay phone. I distinctly heard him tell someone "white Ford, fully loaded" ..... I was outta there.