Hello, Note for Everyone ..

[slleipnir]

I'm still confused about thing but it's none of my business. Goodluck Gina with whatever. I hope things get better (it sounds like things aren't great??)

[Cinder & Smoke]

my PMs had to be paused for now,
and I can't respond to any of them right now.

nothing about me should be a sercet.

... and to those who have been PMing just to get the answers, please stop.

I decide what or what not to share with who.
it seems people ... here who couldn't keep things between us

and now I can't really trust anyone to PM anymore
as it is the only way for me to communicate with others ...

the little leftover portion of my life privacy
has been constantly violated by a few "friends" here.

Could someone translate a few of these conflicting thoughts?

In the Previous Thread, we were instructed to communicate with Gina via PMs.
Seems like 249 Folks did so ... only to be told now that they won't be getting replies.
And to STOP using PMs.

"Nothing should be a secret" ... but she objects to Folks not "keeping things between us"?

It's difficult to "help" under these conditions.

Good Luck.

[shais_mom]

"Nothing should be a secret" ... but she objects to Folks not "keeping things between us"?



Good Luck.

seriously this is an oxymoron b/c EVERYTHING she posts is so secretive. And then she gets mad when someone tells someone something?

[shais_mom]

Ok plz lets not let this thread become an flaming thread. She said to use pm's before but then 249 people did so it is almost full so now we need to use E-mails. Simple as that.

you know what - when you've been on this board going on 7 years and have put up with her schtuff for 4-5 of that years THEN you can give me your opinion.
you have NO idea what you are talking about. if you want to wish her well that's peachy - I actually do too- tho I'm sure she doesn't believe me. I wish her to get better in ALL of her life. ALL OF IT.
but for now - GO back to Class Reggie.

[Cinder & Smoke]

She said to use pm's before but then 249 people did so
it is almost full so now we need to use E-mails.

Simple as that.

Not quite so "simple"!

Those 249 Folks have been told NOT to expect a reply ...

What's going to happen with Folks who send notes via E-mail ??

It get's very frustrating to send notes that get totally ignored!


And NO One is "flaming" anyone!

[shais_mom]

Hey, im not in class because of my asthma so i can stay on here all day!

whatever - I mean it to let's move along here.....

[shais_mom]

Simple as that.[/img]

phred's right - no one is flaming-
and there is NOTHING nothing NOTHING simple here
PERIOD.
EVER
NEVER
WON'T EVER be..

[catnapper]

Reggie, you've only been her a few months. This saga has been ongoing for many years. I will refrain from comment regarding the recent threads because I've said what I feel many times over. I feel sorry for her and wish her well. I wouldn't wish her demons on anyone and pray that she finds peace in life.

I am only commenting on your comment; telling everyone to stop bashing before any bashing begins only infuriates the people who are standing by biting their tongues. A LOT of people have strong feelings about this particular poster.... and for a relative newbie to tell people who've dealt with "situations" for several years to not make it a flaming thread is only gonna fan the flames.

[Hellow]

Ok, i just deleted all of my posts in this thread besides my first because im such an noob.

[shais_mom]

Ok, i just deleted all of my posts in this thread besides my first because im such an noob.

boy I know I'm old.
you didn't need to do that but I have no clue what a noob means.

[Husky_mom]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

[Hellow]

I have no clue what a noob means.

It means new guy.

[Kfamr]

Gina, I too am rather confused by the conflicting comments in your posts, however, I truly hope you find happiness SOMEWHERE. You have received an IMMENSE amount of support and care from just about everyone here and I truly hope you appreciate that.

I hope you don't view me as a bad person because I don't reply to all of your threads, but we've all got issues in life too, so I am not always able to reply to yours.

[Queen of Poop]

I´m sorry for what you have been going through.....but you know I´m still here to lend you shoulder........ no matter if I get a PM response or not..... I don´t live by PM´s...... nor should I expect one knowing you probably are waaaay busy with much more important things (your health).....

thank you and thank those that have been udpating us on your status, if you keep your life secretly fine, it´s your life afterall..... if you wanna share fine too........

if you feel like you shouldn´t say anything cause you can say anything nice, don´t mention that, just don´t reply......(not taking this on you moosmom, but I´ve noticed it lately amongst a few)

saying that is just as well as saying something NOT nice, complaining about the never ending drama.... what does that affect anyone, if it were your own drama you wouldn´t want anyone telling you things and complaining of what YOU are going through...... we each have our own battles and if you can´t support the troops then don´t fire against those that have one, weather you believe it or not....... it´s their issue and whatever anyone believes the person having it needs support, physical, emotional, etc.... and if you can´t be kind enough to give it, what is this world going to be...... share your kindness to the world and to the people that need them....

as my mother also said: "don´t do to others what you wouldn´t want them to do to you"....... put yourself in her shoes...... just for a sec.......

I´ve been here for a while and I´ve witnessed a few problems she´s had and nonetheless I´m still here to share my friendship.....

if anyone is tired of doing so, then just don´t post and keep it to yourselves, I wouldn´t want anyone telling me "here comes her again" just when I need you the most.......if that happened I wouldn´t feel comfortable posting here as I would know it would be less helpful to do so and will hurt me more in trying to reach out for help.......

I´m not taking this against anyone, if you feel like it, it´s not, just a general idea of what I see.... and my own PERSONAL opinion on the matter, and this could apply to anyone cases, not just Gina........

Well said!!

[lizbud]

Husky Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I guess we don't share
the same idea about what constitutes a friendship. To me, a real friendship
is only possible when there is trust & respect between people.