This is a family site, so I will try and write this neutrally.
BF has a nice new house, first time on his own since his wife died several years ago.
This is wonderful - he is really starting to enjoy adding more decor, landscaping, shrubs, Persian/India hall rugs...hardwood floors. All just the way he wanted it.
Downstairs is a complete guest area - microwave and kettle, a toaster I think. Full bath, several guest rooms, a living area with couch and a fireplace. Also, guest room upstairs for elderly relatives or friends who aren't as limber as they once were.
I have been there several times...before my surgery, we got "close". (That's as direct as I will get).
Instead of shuffling off to the main room upstairs, I was shuffled each time to a guest room downstairs. I asked 'why' once, and got some reply about the 'item of furniture' on the main floor being 'too high'.
We rarely get to see each other in person, though we talk on IM very well. I have raised this question for more discussion later. I want more on the "why".
If that room is yet too "special" for us, then I think that denotes a change in direction and behaviour where the two of us are concerned.
I feel like I am "relegated" to the guest room, and I am ANNOYED.
Am I bugged over nothing? What do you think?
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