Do you like gift registries?

[Vela]

It ruins the surprise of the gift if you tell someone specifically what you want, in my opinion. I'm the type of person that any gift is liked by, so there is no reason for anyone to ask me what I want. Just the thought that someone took the time to make, purchase, etc something for me makes me happy.

That's so true! I feel the same way about it. I don't care how much it was, and I never expect gifts, so just the person thinking enough of me to think about it and get me something is great. I am a true beleiver in "it's the thouht that counts". Mu husband bought me a watering can for my plants, because I didn't have one. While most people would think, how stupid is that? I thought wow, that was really nice that he noticed I watered my plants with a glass, and thought about me enough that the convenience of having a watering can for my houseplants would be appreciated. The thoughtfulness someone shows for simple things like that is what matters to me the most.

[finn's mom]

I think they're great. I love Christmas lists, birthday lists, etc (handwritten ideas, not a registry for Christmas and birthdays). I think it's a nice way to let people know what you want and need. It's not like people are obligated to purchase from the lists, though. If I know the couple well enough to get them something really personal or to put something together, I will...but, if I'm not sure, it's nice to have a guide.

[Zippy]

I'm the type of person that any gift is liked by, so there is no reason for anyone to ask me what I want. Just the thought that someone took the time to make, purchase, etc something for me makes me happy.

Me too.It is the thought that counts.But anyone who knows me knows what I like the best,ect...When I buy a gift I take great care in picking it out.

[Rachel]

I think they're great. I love Christmas lists, birthday lists, etc (handwritten ideas, not a registry for Christmas and birthdays). I think it's a nice way to let people know what you want and need. It's not like people are obligated to purchase from the lists, though. If I know the couple well enough to get them something really personal or to put something together, I will...but, if I'm not sure, it's nice to have a guide.

IMO, I think the intent is for the convenience of the gifter and as one who has a very difficult time figuring out *what to buy*, I appreciate having that kind of help. All the registries from which I've selected gifts had a variety of price ranges. I don't consider a lengthy registery to be an indication of the recipient being greedy, just that they offering the opportunity for a wide selection from which to choose. That said, I don't doubt there are those whose registries suggest they are entitled to only the best. Fortunately I have not had that experience.

I would love to see my relatives who live at a distance have a *wish list* at Amazon. When you don't have the opportunity to see people in their own homes, it is really a huge challenge to select a gift for them. That is why I generally give cash, which some people think is tacky.