Kim, Peanut was spayed by the time I got her, so I have little to no knowledge about them, but I would think after any such invasive type surgery there will be pain and swelling. I think the reason most vets keep the girls overnight is because of this, and because they know the meowmies with worry.

I would think you could call your regular vet and ask them if they think it's normal. You may get the standard "we'll have to see her" response, but they might be more than happy to give you some things to watch out for too.

I know Jen is extremely good at spotting potential problems with kitties and I would feel very confident knowing Abby is in her care, so try not to worry too much. It could just be that she's a small kitty and it all just seems worse than it is, or it could be that it's just really soon after the surgery and she's still recovering.

I'm sure she will be up and at 'em in no time (thinking positive).

{{{hugs}}} 'cause I read about your stressful morning already. Hope things calm down and go a bit easier for you as the day goes on!