Aw, poor you, Tonya. So much on your plate. Poor little Jaden. It has to be tough not being able to control his impluses. Maybe he pulls his lashes as he's lying in bed, trying to fall asleep. He may be thinking of things and subconsciencely doing it. (i say that because to this day, I have a habit of twirling my hair at a certain spot at the back of my head when I'm daydreaming or upset and have to catch myself) I doubt, and I hope I'm right, that any qualified therapist would make a child feel bad or guilty. I'm glad you're giving it a try. I know for a fact that therapy can be a big help (went to one when my dad died. ) Prayers and good luck coming your way. Hugs to Jaden