Oh my goodness darling.

I'm so sorry you're having all these problems. Look at the bright side. At least you have wonderful people who are willing to help you out. When I blew a tire on the express just before Christmas I was stranded for over two hours, and non of my friends would come and help because it was too cold out. Finally a state trooper took me home, and my girlfriend had been at my apartment waiting for me. She called her dad at his work and as soon as he got off work him and his partner not only came to the apartment to get me, but changed the tire and the next day his partner gave me a new/used tire and a spare tire for my car. Along with a brand new tire iron and jack. I got fortunate with them.