Andie,

You are NOT responsible for making your family happy. Just make yourself happy. That's what matters.

Whatever problems members of your family have with one another are THEIR problems. I learned a LOOOOOOONG time ago that it's their choice to be angry at each other.

My brother and father didn't speak for over 15 years. I never knew why. But, I can tell you this. When my Dad passed away 8 years ago, neither one of them had STILL spoken to each other. I believe it's something my brother will regret for the rest of his life.

Life is WAY too short to hold grudges. We're not in this life forever.