Originally posted by GraciesMommy
Agree..move on.....I moved 500 miles away...much happier, even tho I miss them and don't get to see them but every 3 months or so...still better being a little farther apart..
I did the same and it was a great decision. That way, when we do get together it is a special occasion and I'm not involved in the day-to-day bickering that goes on. What did Eleanor Roosevelt say? Something to the effect that people can only take advantage of you with your permission.

Also, I'm not sure I understand the title. Should I be Guilty??
Do you mean, Should I Feel Guilty? If that's it, the answer is NO. You shouldn't feel guilty. And No, you're not guilty of anything. Now, you'll probably get homesick once in a while and feel like you need to be back home, but a couple of hours of bickering and finger pointing etc. will remind you why you need to take a step back. They will figure out their own problems.