Gary, like everyone said, you are NOT a failure. Little Scrappy2 will come back soon enough, ready to eat and go into the carrier for you. He will build his trust back sooner or later. I did the same thing for Buddy, my mom took him in. I tried to grab at him BEFORE he fully entered the carrier to start eating, and he got away. He was scared for about 2 days after that, but his hunger got the best of him. Now he is a happy INDOOR only kitty. So good luck, and know that we all are supporting you and praying that Scrappy2 will come around again soon *HUGS* Katie