Originally posted by Tonya
So the whole baby shower was delayed for an hour and a half waiting for her. The food was all cold by the time she got there. Her excuse was "Sorry I am late, you know me..."

... She showed up 3 hours late and everyone (about 100 people) were waiting that whole time to eat.
Here's the good news. Now you do know her. Now you know to never ever trust her ever again! No matter how much she begs or says she's changed. If she insists on bringing something - you assign her something that isn't important and that the meal doesn't hinge on.

Then you start events on time. Don't ever wait for her ever again. It took me along time to figure this out - please don't take as long as me and begin today to promise yourself that you will never ever permit her to use you and everyone else again.