Thank you all for your input and opinions. It really does help to have people that can understand the pressure of all of this.

Catland- Thank you so much for the words of wisdom. I am going to take your advice, and just let it go. Brush it off, and try to be a better person because of all of this. I mean, I do right by her son, and I dont really need her approval, he says he is happy, so why shouldnt I be? I am not a rude person, I try to be nice to everyone. As long as I keep it that way, I guess in a sense I win this battle..if their is a battle to be won Anyways, thank you *hugs*

Your poor husband must have been embarrassed! LOL I am sure that he and your family knew what you meant