Well said, Sirrahbed...I am not condemning either side for their views and I read all the comments from the get go but chose to stay out of it.(at that time) .but I think that bashing either person is just not right..let it go..
I think it got out of hand...and I don't think that was anyone's intention

I am a Christian..better yet..a Christ Follower...I attend a Baptist Church but don't agree with the whole doctrine of ANY church..I am far from perfect..never will be til I am in a Christlike body and that is when I stop breathing...
It is not my place to judge what is right or wrong..its God's..I know how I feel about certain issue...what is right or wrong for ME..I am only accountable for ME.
I do know that if my son or daughter were to come to me with that particular issue I would love them regardless...I have unconditional love for both of them. They have both made many many choices/decisions/or have personality traits they were born with that do not make me happy, but I love them...period...and always will..

I don't think any one "started" this for a fight..I think it was a question that they felt was a good topic for an adult discussion..probably knew it would/could get heated but didn't realize it would touch off some hurt feelings or I don't think they would have ever posted it.