Leslie, my miniature poodle Ashley was three years old when we got Whitney (standard poodle). Even though Whitney was smaller than Ashley when we brought her home, Ashley ran under my husband's desk! That behavior didn't last long, though. Over time Ashley resumed her role as "top dog" and "queen of the house" with Whitney worshipping her and following her everywhere she went. It's funny how they fall into their respective roles over time. I can hardly wait to hear the stories but know you will be VERY busy so will be waiting patiently.