My friend and I were pregnant with the same due dates a few years ago. I lost my baby and she had her son, Sebastian. She was going through some hard times and Sebastian was an unplanned pregnancy, at one point she wanted me to adopt him once he was born. I told her to give parenting a shot but that I would always be his Godparent and I'd be there for her if things didn't work. Luckily, all turned out well. She's beat all of her fears and is a wonderful mommy. She isn't religious though, so the whole Godparent thing didn't involve a church. I just spoil Sebastian to death.