I vaguely remembered lurking here for quite a while before I HAD to put my two cents' worth in on any of the threads. MomofFuzzyFaces, your post made me curious enough to look it up to see just what thread it was that 'tipped me over' into posting. One of our members had lost her treasured cat, and I wanted/needed to extend my sympathies to her. My Sassafras had passed away just over 3 months prior ...

The advice/humor/sympathy here is so healing. So glad that we found this place!