Thanks carrie.. I have tried a little of that but stopped short because Harley was really refusing to stay calm. I think I will try again and be persistent and firm with him. I am constantly setting his boundaries because he's the most dominant little thing I've ever seen. Its just this cat problem has got me stressed because I want everyone to be happy.

Both the dogs are at doggy day care today. I'm hoping running around wild for 12 hours with other dogs will help Harley out a little and he'll be calmer and pooped when he gets home. I hope little Reece is doing okay. I think I'm the one experiencing the seperation axiety now though

I'll try your suggestion carrie and let you know how it works. I'm bound and determined to make them get along again.