Oh, girls! I am so sorry that you are that unhappy! If you are that unhappy, you should get out. Especially if you don't have children. I know the financial comfort is nice but money cannot buy happiness. The longer you stay the harder it will be to leave.

I am not unhappy in my marriage. I've accepted my husband's faults. I have just as many faults that he puts up with. I am not constantly sad or angry. But if I was, I would not stay.