WOW.... So I'm NOT alone!!!

I do 100% of the cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping, caring for the dogs, I take out the trash every week, I do all the bills, and take care of all of the money, mow the lawn in the summer, do all the flower beds. I help in the fall when we get fire wood, when we fenced on our yard, which I helped with, I stained the entire fence myself by hand, (because he said using a power painter thing would be lazy)

He gets home from work about an hour and a half before me, and as soon as I walk in the door he asks what's for dinner. He says he can try to start dinner before I get home, but the two times he has, he had to call me every 30 seconds to ask questions (I think he did that on purpose so that I didn't ask him to do it again) So.. once I get home from work, drop my stuff, make dinner, clean up dinner, then he says "Okay, lets go to the gym"
I know I'm overweight, but don't need him to remind me everyday of my LIFE!!!! So by the time we get home, it's 9:45 and I'm ready for bed! Then he crabs because the house needs cleaned!!!
I've tried leaving him twice, once I had my bags packed and most of them in the car... but he won't let me leave. I don't make enough money to live on my own with two big dogs. (He would NEVER get the dogs... well.. Buddy doesn't even like him, but I'm sure he'd try to keep Sierra, but I would NEVER let that happen!)
Do you think I microchipped them in JUST my name for a reason!
And the records at the vets office are ONLY in my name!

Whew.... that felt GREAT to get all of that out!!!
Now... I just need to leave.... we've been together for 11 years, and have been married for 3. He keeps talking about kids, and I don't want to have kids with him. He's a mean person, with a bad temper, and can never keep from raising his voice!! He's never raised a hand to me (if he ever did... I'm sure Buddy would take care of him for me!) Sometime I wish he would... then maybe I'd wake up, move out and get my life back!!

LuckyDog... NO!! You did NOT overreact at all!!!!!
We all need to stand up for ourselves!!!!