How rude!!! I tell ya you think you know who your friends are then they go and pull something like this. Like someone else said I would let them know how hurt and angry you are about this. I mean you went through to much trouble getting this party ready! I lost all of my friends because I got married and had a baby. I was really hurt by it too. On my birthday which was Monday my best friend from way back when actually called me and told me happy b-day and she hasn't done that in years. So needless to say I was surprised by that. Today is her b-day so I guess I will call her and tell her happy b-day! Anyways, sorry this happened to you ((((((hugs))))))