Oh Audrey. I know just what you speak of when you mention that sinking feeling. The thought of losing any of my babies is gut wrenching. And, when you start to see the signs of age, it hurts so badly, and fears starts to creep in. BUT, Rufus is SO very loved!!! And, like most of us rickety "seniors," he has those days when the legs just don't seem to want to move! And yes, as seniors, that do often have those potty problems. And sometimes, certain accomodations, perhaps medication, and a bit more human effort and patience are necessary to ensure their comfort. I know you excel in providing all of that for your Rufus. But he sounds like he still loves life, loves the company of his family and is eating well.Talking with my vet and asking for his advice always helped me during those times. My Cody is only 6 and has suffered from hip dysplasia and arthritris. She has also had the "leaks" since puppyhood! As with most things in life, we have to just take it a day at a time. Try not to look too far ahead. Instead, focus on the day, the hour and the moment, and love him with all your might!! (I know you do!!!)
And here's a link ( I hope) to a past thread which posted a question very similar to the one you had about "greedy dogs!" Hope it helps!
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthre...ghlight=carrie
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