Thanks for all of your advice. I stuck to my guns and won! Acutually hubby served as mediator and came up with a solution--

Pick up Beanie at 10....
Christmas morning at OUR HOUSE!!!...
To my parents (an hour and 1/2 away) for late lunch....
His parents for supper...

It only worked when Stephen brought up that if we ate supper with them that we wouldn't have to rush off anywhere, we could stay and have plently of time so play. YEA HUBBY!!! Even though its not much time with my family, we have to go back up to Monroeville the next weekend for Mom's birthday--She's a New Years Baby.

...And--- Stephen left the basement door unlocked last night, and when he got up for his 5:00 safety meeting before work this morning, tripped over the vacuum cleaner and pushed the basement door shut before Kelly could run back down. She scampered out from under the couch while I was looking for my shoes this morning....YEA HUBBY (AGAIN)!!!