My heart truly goes out to you. You're a kind soul for finding this woman a cat at a not-so-nice shelter and out of the goodness of your heart, you plunk down your own cash and then she doesn't want the cat?! How infuriating.

I feel for you, I really do. I can't offer any advice. Is there someone else who might want her? Being the owner of a tortie in the past, I know they can be shy and timid and sometimes difficult to home.

I just don't know what to say.