I can understand how upset you are!! I got even more upset myself when I learnt yesterday that Verdi is still allowed to go outside, even though the vet has suspected she may have a viral disease! My friend and her bf are just not taking these things serious, they are exactly the kind of people I made www.catmom.de for!

They're caring well for their baby boy btw, but it seems they just don't have time left for the kitty anymore. Verdi is 13 or 14 years old, so I guess she will stay with them till the end.

Besides, we used to be good friends for many years, but since the baby was born, we barely talk because she doesn't have the time. Actually, when she called me the other day to get some advice for Verdi was the first time for many weeks that she called me.

Kirsten