I didn't realize that neutering the male might help. I hope so. Yes, the inside male cat is neutered.

When I go to my mom's next week, I'll take my digital camera and get some pictures.

Her inside cat is so cute. She got him from the pound and he is EXTREMLY shy. He stays in her bedroom the whole time she has visitors. He has gotten kind of used to to me, so he will come out and walk around a little bit while I am there. He is mostly white and has this grey tail that curls into a perfect upward circle when he is walking. I have never seen anything like it. Do you think that means he is nervous or apprehensive?

Jenn