Oh honey, I don't know what I would do. I would be so full of rage, and heartache, I just don't know! Why does he want to see you? I guess he wants to "apologize"? Or does he want to beg for mercy that you won't make him rot in jail? Does this guy have previous DUI's or is this a young person with a 1st offense? I guess I would ask myself these things, and weigh the facts to see whether or not I could find any ounce of compassion at all for this person. I know we all make bad choices and suffer the consequences of our actions, but drunk-driving has always been a really bad issue for me!!!

I know that you will never forget and find it nearly impossible to forgive this person, for taking your child from you .... but I'm not sure if meeting him will help you or not. I do know one thing though ... if this man has any amount of remorse, or sensitivity, this is something that will haunt him for the rest of his life!!!!

God be with you, Renae ... and your husband and family as you struggle through these extremely difficult days. Please know that you can e-mail me at anytime that you need a friend, or a shoulder, or a sounding board!!!

((((HUGS))))
Kim