Traditionally we are very casual and gather as a family for the gift opening and meal. We have church both Christmas eve and Christmas morning and get dressed up for that, but as soon as we get home, off come the dressy clothes and on with the jeans or sweats for a very casual and comfy day of eating, games, puzzles, etc.

Our middle son's birthday is also Christmas eve, so we will usually dress up in the afternoon and go out to a nice restaurant.

Thanksgiving is strictly casual